Learning to Love and Care for Curly Hair: A Journey of Discovery
In the basement of Larry King's salon in Marylebone, London, stylist Jennie Roberts is teaching me the art of curly hair care. I'm eager to learn, but also intimidated by the prospect of mastering a skill that has been lost on my family for years.
"I don't have trauma in my life around my hair," says Roberts, who has styled everyone from Thandiwe Newton to Mel B and now offers courses for handling Black curls. "It's never occurred to me to straighten my hair, because I love it." Her words of reassurance are a welcome respite from the years of frustration and disappointment I've experienced trying to care for my daughters' curly locks.
My journey began with a crash course in curl care, courtesy of stylist Jennie Roberts. With the help of her guidance, I was able to identify fundamental mistakes in my hair game - using tight hair ties that cling to hair, brushing technique gone wrong, and heavy serums meant for tighter curls. The good news is that fixing these issues takes patience, technique, and a willingness to jettison old methods.
Roberts' approach is refreshingly straightforward. She recommends using a manta comb instead of a brush, which features longer teeth spaced out to gently unpick tangles. I also learned the importance of starting at the bottom of the hair, identifying knots, and then working my way up with slow, deliberate strokes.
One of the most significant breakthroughs was using a diffuser to enhance curls and reduce frizz. Roberts' massive diffuser - which doubles as a satellite dish - worked its magic in about 10 minutes, bringing out defined curls that had previously been lost on me.
The key takeaways from my crash course are patience, technique, and the willingness to adapt. With these principles in mind, I embarked on our first "salon night" with silk pillows to protect the girls' hair at bedtime. Combing took longer, but it was significantly less painful for everyone involved.
As I look back on this journey, I'm struck by the realization that hair care is not just about mastering a skill, but also about bonding and connection. Jennie Roberts' words of wisdom echo in my mind: "It's all about education and making everything simplified." By embracing the art of curly hair care, I've gained more than just a new skill - I've discovered a deeper understanding of myself and my family.
The power of learning to love and care for curly hair is undeniable. It's an opportunity for bonding, not just between parents and children, but also between generations. As I look forward to future "salon nights" with my daughters, I'm excited to continue this journey of discovery and growth, armed with the knowledge that patience, technique, and a willingness to adapt can make all the difference.
In the basement of Larry King's salon in Marylebone, London, stylist Jennie Roberts is teaching me the art of curly hair care. I'm eager to learn, but also intimidated by the prospect of mastering a skill that has been lost on my family for years.
"I don't have trauma in my life around my hair," says Roberts, who has styled everyone from Thandiwe Newton to Mel B and now offers courses for handling Black curls. "It's never occurred to me to straighten my hair, because I love it." Her words of reassurance are a welcome respite from the years of frustration and disappointment I've experienced trying to care for my daughters' curly locks.
My journey began with a crash course in curl care, courtesy of stylist Jennie Roberts. With the help of her guidance, I was able to identify fundamental mistakes in my hair game - using tight hair ties that cling to hair, brushing technique gone wrong, and heavy serums meant for tighter curls. The good news is that fixing these issues takes patience, technique, and a willingness to jettison old methods.
Roberts' approach is refreshingly straightforward. She recommends using a manta comb instead of a brush, which features longer teeth spaced out to gently unpick tangles. I also learned the importance of starting at the bottom of the hair, identifying knots, and then working my way up with slow, deliberate strokes.
One of the most significant breakthroughs was using a diffuser to enhance curls and reduce frizz. Roberts' massive diffuser - which doubles as a satellite dish - worked its magic in about 10 minutes, bringing out defined curls that had previously been lost on me.
The key takeaways from my crash course are patience, technique, and the willingness to adapt. With these principles in mind, I embarked on our first "salon night" with silk pillows to protect the girls' hair at bedtime. Combing took longer, but it was significantly less painful for everyone involved.
As I look back on this journey, I'm struck by the realization that hair care is not just about mastering a skill, but also about bonding and connection. Jennie Roberts' words of wisdom echo in my mind: "It's all about education and making everything simplified." By embracing the art of curly hair care, I've gained more than just a new skill - I've discovered a deeper understanding of myself and my family.
The power of learning to love and care for curly hair is undeniable. It's an opportunity for bonding, not just between parents and children, but also between generations. As I look forward to future "salon nights" with my daughters, I'm excited to continue this journey of discovery and growth, armed with the knowledge that patience, technique, and a willingness to adapt can make all the difference.