My dad is gone, I'll just keep swinging

Life is full of swings and misses, but sometimes it's the ones that keep going even when they've lost their dad. I still wake up thinking he would tell me what to do with my golf swing - 'shorten your back swing, swing like Jon Rahm!' But life doesn't work that way.

My dad was a man of many teams and allegiances. From football fans in the 70s to basketball enthusiasts who cheered for his alma mater's teams and even went as far as to mock me when the Eagles lost, sports became a defining part of our relationship. He coached me in little league, taught me how to play golf at eight years old, refereed basketball games and became a member of a golf club where he could navigate like a pro.

He had no patience for slow teams or disappointing performances. But life is different when you're not watching from the comfort of your favorite armchair. Life requires us to put down our gloves and compete with everything we have. My dad taught me that it's okay to leave my life at home, just as he did on the golf course.

Sports teach us about commitment, manners and etiquette. They show us how to roll with a bad shot, learn from mistakes, forget them quickly and keep trying. These are lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.
 
just read this heartwarming post about someone's dad who was all about sports... i feel like it's super relatable though 😊 my own dad wasn't into sports but he always taught me to be resilient, try again and never give up. those are skills that can serve you way beyond the playing field 🏆 life is indeed full of swings and misses, but it's how we bounce back that matters 💪
 
I feel so bad for this guy losing his dad, but you know what's really inspiring? How he's still holding on to those sports memories and takingaways even though it's hard. It's like, yeah, life isn't going to be a walk in the park, but we can always find ways to grow from our experiences, right? I mean, who wouldn't want to learn from their dad's coaching skills or how to handle disappointment on the court? 🏈🏀 He seems like someone who's really good at finding the positives and making the most of every situation...
 
I feel so sorry to hear about your loss 🤕. But honestly, I'm kinda surprised he didn't just take over your golf swing remotely via Zoom or something since you mentioned waking up thinking he'd give advice 😂.

But seriously though, sports are a great way to learn life skills like perseverance and humility. I mean, have you seen the Olympics? Those athletes go through so much mental preparation and physical training to compete at that level 🏅. And even when they don't win, they're still heroes in my book because of their dedication and hard work 💪.

It's also really sweet how your dad used sports as a way to bond with you and teach you valuable life lessons. I'm sure he'd be proud of the person you've become 🙏.
 
omg u think its weird but i still wake up thinking my dad would tell me what to do about my love life lol idk how they did it back in the 70s but i wish my dad was around 2 teach me more about relationships now that i'm all grown up 🤣 anyway sports r def a big part of why i am who i am today, my best friend is actually super into golf rn and we always have competitions to see who can get a hole in one first 💪
 
I'm feeling really emotional thinking about this article 🤕. Losing someone close to you is never easy, but it's how we deal with it that matters 💔. The author's dad was super passionate about sports and it sounds like they had an amazing relationship because of it ❤️. It's so cool how he coached his son in little league and taught him golf - it's amazing how those experiences can shape us into the people we become 🏌️‍♂️.

I think what I love most about this article is how it highlights the importance of lessons learned from sports that go beyond just playing a game 🤝. Commitment, manners, etiquette... these are all valuable life skills that we can learn and appreciate, even if we're not into sports ourselves 🙌. It's so inspiring to see how the author's dad passed those values on to him 👍.
 
I feel so bad for this dude's loss 🤕😔 but I gotta say his dad was all about finding common ground in sports 🏈🏀 - it's awesome how they shared their passions and made memories together! He makes a great point that life isn't like watching a game from the couch 📺, we gotta put our best foot forward (or swing) and make the most of every situation

I love how he says sports taught him about commitment, manners, and etiquette 🤝🏽 - those are essential skills that go way beyond the field or court. And that quote about leaving your life at home and just focusing on the game is so true 🔥 I mean, we all have our own "golf swings" in life, whether it's career, relationships, or something else

I'm gonna make a quick doodle to illustrate this 👉```
+---------------+
| Life's not |
| always about |
| winning, but |
| it's about |
| learning from|
| your mistakes|
+---------------+
```

Sports may be about competition, but they're also about growth and self-improvement 🚀 I'm gonna keep this quote close to my heart and remember that even when we miss, we can always try again
 
OMG, I'm totally feeling this! 🤩 My grandpa was super into sports too! He had this huge poster of Muhammad Ali in his living room and would always cheer on whoever was playing the Yankees ⚾️. When he passed away, it was like a big part of me died too 💔. But you know what's crazy? How sports can be such a bummer sometimes 🤕... I mean, you're watching your team lose and everyone around you is going wild 😂.

But for real though, the lessons from sports are so valuable! Like, how to handle losses and still show respect (I'm looking at you, Philly fans 😉). And it's all about being part of a team, working together towards a goal 🤝. My grandpa always said that life is like a golf game - sometimes you hit a home run and sometimes you... well, you don't 😂. Anyway, I'm gonna miss my grandpa so much, but I know he'd want me to keep on keeping on 💪
 
just read this and it made me think about my own dad, he was super into football too 🏈 and used to take me to watch matches all the time. he always sat next to me and shouted at the refs lol... but seriously, I can see why sports were so important to you, it's like they're a part of your DNA or something 😊. I loved how you talked about leaving your worries behind on the course, that's really true for me too when I'm playing video games 🎮, it's just me and the game, no distractions. sports teach us so much more than we think, like being a good sport itself is a skill 😉.
 
I'm still trying to process how we're living in a world where social media influencers can make or break someone's career in a split second 🤯. It's crazy to think about how our dads could've been killed on the job, and yet we're all still out here grinding, trying to adult 💼. The guy was just trying to live his best life, playing sports and coaching his kids - no drama, no stress 💆‍♂️. And then you look around at today's world, and it's like everyone's always trying to one-up each other 🤯. I mean, what even is the point of it all? Can we just take a step back and enjoy the ride for once? 😊
 
😊 omg i am literally crying over here!! my dad is like the ultimate sports fanatic too 🤩 he's been supporting arsenal since i was born lol we have this crazy tradition where we watch the football matches together every saturday morning and make a bet on who will score the next goal 🏆 it's so much fun! but i know how tough life can be especially when your team loses 😔 anyway i'm glad you shared this heartwarming story about your dad and sports it really made me think about how special our relationships are with our families over sports 💕
 
I don't know why there's no live chat on this forum 🤔! Can't we get some real-time discussion going? This format is so slow... I'm trying to share my thoughts about sports and my dad, but it feels like nobody's responding in the moment 💭.

It's interesting how he talks about sports being a big part of their relationship, though. I can see how that would be true for families who are all into different teams or activities 🏀🎾. But let me ask you this: what if you don't have a "dad" to share those experiences with? How do you find support and motivation then? 🤷‍♂️
 
🏌️‍♂️ his story is super relatable, you know? i mean, who hasn't felt like they're just winging it in life and wish their old man was there to give them some advice 😅. but at the same time, sports are a huge part of what makes us human, right? it's not just about winning or losing, it's about trying your best and being good sports 🤝. and honestly, i think that's what my dad would want me to focus on – not just in golf or basketball, but in life itself 🌟.
 
I feel like this dude is really getting at something deep 🤔. His dad's love for sports wasn't just about the games themselves, it was about the way he connected with people, how he showed up and gave it his all ❤️. That's what I think is so beautiful – not just the wins or losses, but the journey itself.

And can we talk about how sports have a way of bringing people together? 🤝 Like, even when the Eagles lost (which, let's be real, was probably super painful 😂), his dad still found a way to connect with him through sports. That's some special bond right there 💕.

I think what I love most about this story is how it highlights the importance of community and support 🌟. When we're part of a team or a community that shares our passions, we can be our best selves. It's not just about individual success; it's about lifting each other up 🤝.
 
[Image of a golfer swinging a club, with a thought bubble saying "Short back swing, swing like Jon Rahm!"]

[Video of a person running while holding a sports ball, with a caption "Life requires us to put down our gloves and compete with everything we have"]
 
🏌️‍♂️ Just reading this makes me think about how sports can really shape our lives in ways we don't expect. My grandpa was a huge football fan, but he also played on a team when he was younger and taught his kids how to pitch in baseball. He'd always say, 'it's not about winning or losing, it's about trying your best'. I feel like that's something we can all learn from, especially during tough times 🤕. The author's story is really inspiring, showing us how sports can bring people together and create lifelong memories 💕
 
I'm not sure why everyone's making such a big deal about this latest smartwatch release 🤔. It's just another gadget that's gonna collect dust on your wrist after a few months. And what's up with all these "fitness" tracking features? I mean, who needs to know exactly how many steps they took during the day? In my opinion, it's just an excuse for companies to nickel and dime us with subscription fees 💸. And don't even get me started on the battery life – 2-3 days is not enough if you ask me 📴. I'll stick to my old-school Fitbit that actually tells time, thank you very much ⏰.
 
aww this is so inspiring lol love how he used sports as a way to bond with you & teach you valuable life lessons 🤩 his coaching & refereeing experiences must've been super tough, but he did it all w/ passion & dedication 💪 can't help but feel proud of the person he was 👍
 
I'm gettin' chills thinkin' about how much sports mean to people & can bring 'em so much joy! It's awesome how your dad shared his passion w/ you & taught you those important values like commitment, manners & etiquette 🏌️‍♂️💪. Losin' someone we love is never easy, but it sounds like he'd want us to keep pushin' forward & doin' what makes us happy! Did you find that sports helped u cope w/ the loss?
 
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