Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The tradition of burying our pets in cemeteries is rooted in the heartbreak and taboo of losing beloved companions. As Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology, notes, people have long sought to honor their pets' memories after they pass away.

For centuries, humans have buried their dead animals alongside those of their human loved ones. From the late 19th century, pet cemeteries began to appear across Europe and North America, providing a space for families to mourn and remember their deceased pets.

Historic gravestones from Britain's Victorian period reveal that pets were often considered "loving friends" or "devoted companions." However, by the early 20th century, they had become integral members of the family, with epitaphs written by parents to honor their deceased children's pets.

Fast-forward to modern times, and we see a striking similarity between historic pet cemeteries and contemporary ones. The heartbreak and taboos surrounding grieving for animals are just as prevalent today as they were over 100 years ago. Despite the progress made in societal attitudes towards human-animal relationships, individuals continue to struggle with finding an acceptable outlet to express their pain.

The establishment of public pet cemeteries like Barcelona's will undoubtedly lead to changing funerary and commemoration practices for both humans and animals. While this may provide a space for some families to grieve and remember their pets, others may choose to keep cremated remains within their home or spread ashes in a meaningful location.

What is striking about these developments is the acknowledgment of the importance of human-animal relationships to our collective wellbeing. As society becomes more accepting of these bonds, we are seeing a shift towards rituals that resemble those used to mourn human losses – a testament to the depth and complexity of our emotional connections with animals.

Ultimately, whether one chooses a pet cemetery or not, there are many acceptable ways to express grief and remember the relationships we have with our beloved animals. By acknowledging these bonds and creating spaces for them to be honored, we can work towards a more compassionate and inclusive society that values human-animal relationships as much as we value those between humans themselves.
 
I think it's so sad when our furry friends pass away 😔. I've seen some videos of pet cemeteries online where people are visiting their pets' graves with flowers, candles, and even little statues 🌼🕯️. It's like they're giving the animal a proper farewell, you know? 🙏

I was talking to my friend who lost her dog recently, and she said that having a funeral for her dog was really important to her because it helped her process her grief 💔. I'm glad that there are more pet cemeteries popping up now, like Barcelona's one mentioned in the article 📍.

It's not just about giving animals a place to rest, though – it's also about acknowledging the love and bond we have with them ❤️. My cat passed away last year, and I know how hard it was to say goodbye 😭. But seeing all those pet cemeteries online made me feel like my feelings were valid 🙌.

Anyway, I think it's great that we're moving towards a society where animals are more than just pets – they're part of our families 🐾💕. We need to honor their memories and take care of each other (and them!) more ❤️💪
 
I think it's really beautiful that people are still finding ways to honor their pets' memories after they pass away 🐾💕. I mean, our pets are such an important part of our lives and families, and it's only natural that we want to hold onto the good times with them even when they're not with us anymore.

I love how pet cemeteries have become a thing again, especially in cities like Barcelona 📍. It's amazing that people are now more open to acknowledging the emotional connections we have with our pets and finding ways to grieve and celebrate their lives.

For me, it's all about respecting the bond between humans and animals 💯. We should be celebrating the love and companionship that animals bring into our lives, not just mourning when they're gone 🌟. By doing so, we can create a more compassionate society that values both human and animal relationships equally ❤️.

It's also interesting to see how this trend is influencing funerary practices and changing attitudes towards death and grief in general 🤯. Who knows, maybe one day we'll have pet-themed versions of funeral homes or memorial services? 🎬 Stranger things have happened, right? 😉
 
I'M SO GLAD TO SEE PET CEMETERIES BECOMING MORE ACCEPTABLE!!! IT'S SO SAD WHEN PETS PASS AWAY BUT IT'S AMAZING THAT WE HAVE OPTIONS NOW TO HONOR THEIR MEMORIES 🐾❤️. I MEAN, WHO WOULDN'T WANT TO VISIT A PET CEMETERY AND SEE ALL THE FUNNY AND HEARTWARMING STUFF ON THE GRAVESTONES ?? IT'S LIKE THEY'RE SAYING "OKAY, WE KNOW YOU LOVE YOUR PET AND THAT'S COOL" 😊. I THINK IT'S FANTASTIC THAT PEOPLE ARE STARTING TO REALIZE HOW MUCH PETS MEAN TO US AND THAT WE SHOULD HAVE THE SAME KIND OF RITUALS TO CELEBRATE OUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEM 🌼🐶.
 
🐾 I mean, its really sad but also kinda beautiful when people create cemeteries just for their pets 🌹. Its like, our fur babies are part of the family too and they deserve some love after they pass away ❤️. Ive seen people put up these awesome statues and gardens in memory of their pets, and its amazing to see how much joy it brings them 😊.

I think its cool that we're seeing a shift towards accepting pet loss as a normal part of life 🌈. Its not just about mourning the end of our furry friends, but also celebrating the time we had with them 🙏. My own pup passed away last year and I still get emotional thinking about it 😭. But looking at all these pet cemeteries and stories online, I feel a bit better knowing Im not alone in my grief 💕.

I guess its just another reminder of how much love we have for our pets 🐶💗. They may not be human, but they bring us so much joy and companionship that it feels like they're a part of the family 👪. So yeah, pet cemeteries are definitely an awesome way to honor their memory 🌻.
 
omg this is so sweet!! i love how pet cemeteries are becoming more accepted as a way to honor our furry friends ❤️ it's like we're finally acknowledging the depth of our emotional connections with them! i think it's amazing that these public spaces can provide a safe outlet for people to grieve and remember their pets 💕 whether you choose to cremate or bury your pet, it's all about showing love and respect to those who bring so much joy into our lives 🐾💖
 
I mean, it's so beautiful to see how people still care about their pets even after they pass away 🐾💔. I've seen some crazy stuff on social media where people are setting up mini memorials for their pets in the backyard or even just keeping a favorite toy as a memento. It shows that humans have a special connection with animals and we're not just talking about emotional attachment, but like a real friendship bond.

And yeah, it's interesting to see how pet cemeteries are making a comeback 🏰. I've visited one with my own pup and it was such a peaceful vibe. You'd be surprised by the different designs and decorations people come up with for their pets' graves. It's not just about mourning, but also celebrating the time you had together.

I'm all for acknowledging the importance of human-animal relationships in our society 🌎. We need more spaces like this where we can express ourselves and honor our pets without judgment. Whether it's a cemetery or a special memory ritual at home, what matters most is that we're recognizing the impact these animals have on our lives ❤️.
 
I'm telling ya, people used to get so attached to their pets back in the day... like, they were family members or something 🐶😢. I mean, think about it, there are cemeteries just for pets now, and it's not a new thing! They've been doing it since the 1800s in Europe and North America. It's so cool to see how people back then would write these beautiful epitaphs for their pets, like they were human kids or something ❤️.

And you know what's even crazier? We're still struggling with the same emotions today! I mean, sure, society has become more accepting of our relationships with animals, but we're still trying to figure out how to grieve and honor them properly. Like, some people might want a pet cemetery, while others just wanna keep it at home or scatter the ashes somewhere special... whatever works for you, right? 🌼

It's all about acknowledging those human-animal bonds and making sure we're treating animals with the respect they deserve. I mean, let's be real, animals bring so much joy and love into our lives, and when they pass away, it's like losing a part of ourselves... or at least that's how it feels for me 😔.
 
🤩 I'm totally down for pet cemeteries! I mean, who wouldn't want to give their furry friends a proper sendoff? 🐾💔 It's amazing how our attitudes towards animals are evolving, and now it's all about honoring their memories. I love that people are finding ways to grieve and remember their pets in different ways - whether it's through cremation or scattering ashes in a special spot. It just goes to show how much we care about our animal companions... like they're part of the family! 🐶❤️
 
🤔 I'm all about this whole pet cemetery thing! It's crazy how much grief people feel when they lose their furry friends 🐾💔. I mean, our pets are basically part of the fam anyway, right? And it's awesome that we're starting to see more recognition of those bonds 🌈. I've got a friend who lost her pup last year and she was totally devastated 😭. It broke my heart, tbh... But at least now there's this awesome option for people to pay their respects and celebrate the love they shared with their pets 💕. And let's be real, who doesn't love a good grave marker or memorial? 🎨 Just think about all the cute animal pics on tombstones that are gonna be a thing now 📸!
 
I'm totally down with the idea of having pet cemeteries now 🤩. I mean, think about it - our pets are part of the family too, right? Losing them is like losing a loved one, and you want to do something special to honor their memory. A dedicated space for that can be really comforting for people. Plus, it's nice that we're starting to acknowledge just how big of an impact animals have on our lives 🐶💕. I've had my own furry friends pass away, and it's not easy... but having a place like Barcelona's pet cemetery would be a great way for others to process their grief too 💔.
 
can u believe people used to bury their pets in cemeteries? it's wild that ppl thought of their furry friends as "loving friends" or "devoted companions" back in the day lol 🤣 anyway, i think its dope that pet cemeteries are making a comeback, but idk if i'd wanna be buried next to my furbabies tho 😂 they're way too cute and would probably steal all the good spotz 💀👻
 
I'm paws-itive (get it?) that this trend of having pet cemeteries is here to stay! I mean, who doesn't love a good cry with their cat or dog? 🤣 It's like, we're finally recognizing that our furry friends are more than just pets, they're part of the family. And let's be real, those epitaphs from the 1900s? "Loving friend" and "devoted companion"? That's just code for "they were your BFF"! 😂 What's next? Pet funeral services where you can pick out a bespoke coffin shaped like a cat litter box? 🚮🐈 Ahh, I'm excited to see how this all plays out!
 
OMG, I'm paws-itive that burying pets in cemeteries is the paw-fect way to honor their memory 😂🐶. Like, think about it, pets are our furry little family members, and when they pass away, we're basically left with a giant hole in our hearts...and homes 🏠💔. I mean, who needs a giant screen TV when you can have a pet cemetery with a beautiful view? 📺🌳 But seriously, it's awesome that people are acknowledging the importance of human-animal relationships and creating spaces for us to grieve and remember our beloved pets 👍. Maybe one day we'll even have pet emojis on our phones 🤣.
 
I never knew pets had cemeteries too 🤔... I mean, my dog isn't really dead yet lol... but if he were, I think it would be nice to have a special spot for him too 💕. It's cool that people are making pet cemeteries now and recognizing how much we love our pets... my cat always sleeps on my lap when I'm watching TV 😴. Does anyone really write epitaphs for their pets? That sounds kinda weird but also sweet at the same time 🤷‍♀️. What's the deal with cremating or scattering ashes, is that a thing now too? I've seen some people spreading ashes in special places on Google Maps... it looks like they're making little memorial parks for their pets 🌳.
 
I think its really cool that people are getting back into burying their pets in cemeteries again 🤠. I mean, I've lost some furry friends too, and its a hard feeling to process. But at the same time, not everyone wants or can afford a traditional cemetery spot 🤑. Im all for making cremation and home burials more accessible so people can choose what feels right for them 💀. And yeah, its awesome that society is starting to see how important those human-animal bonds are 😊. Like, pets really do become part of our families, you know?
 
I dont get why people wanna create special cemeteries just 4 their pets 🤔... its just a pet, u know? They're not exactly gonna remember the person who buried them or care about the tombstone lol. Its just an animal, we all know that. And yeah, I can see how it might help some people grieve and stuff, but others will prob just keep their ashes at home and be done w/it 🚮
 
omg u gotta feel so bad 4 ur pet 🐾💔 i think it's amazing that ppl r makin cemeteries 4 pets now!! i had a pup who passed away last yr & i felt like i was gonna lose my mind 😭 but havin a special spot 2 remember them at is really beautiful. i wish there were more pet cemeteries in asia tho 🤷‍♀️ we need 2 support each other more during these hard times 💕
 
I think its kinda cool how people r now makin pet cemeteries again 🤝. like, pets r part of the fam too, u feel? it's all about findin ways to honor our love 4 them when they're gone. but idk if i'd wanna go 2 a pet cemetery myself lol 🐾💔 maybe thats just me tho...anywayz, its def interesin 2 see how this trend plays out 🤔📚
 
idk why ppl need a special spot 2 bury their pets 🤔 but its actually kinda sweet dat they got a place 2 grieve n remember them too...i mean, animals r like part of the fam n losin one is def heartbreakin 😔. gotta say tho, i'm all 4 pet cremation tho - it's just more eco friendly n u can still scatter ashes in a special spot 🌳. but hey, if ppl wanna bury their pets in a cemetery thats cool too...just think its cute dat we r gettin better at acceptin our emotions n findin ways 2 honor our furry friends 💕
 
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