The perfect way to switch off from work: the secret to a daily de-stress routine

For decades, Marilyn Monroe famously said that "a career is wonderful, but you can't curl up with it on a cold night." Today, thanks to technology and hybrid remote working, this statement holds true more than ever. The lines between work and leisure time are becoming increasingly blurred, making it easier to get sucked into work-related tasks even outside of office hours.

Research by Business in the Community has revealed that nearly half of employees feel pressured to respond to calls or check emails during their free time, while over two-thirds experience high workloads that force them to put in overtime. This phenomenon is particularly prevalent among those who work from home, with 40% of Britons now splitting their time between office and home bases.

However, psychologists argue that the benefits of switching off from work are clear-cut. Detaching mentally and physically from job-related tasks during non-work hours is crucial for maintaining productivity, wellbeing, and avoiding burnout. According to Sabine Sonnentag, a leading expert in work psychology, "there's a recovery paradox at play: greater exposure to job stressors simultaneously calls for but prevents recovery."

To achieve this psychological detachment, individuals can establish daily routines that signal the end of their working day. Claire Ashley, author of The Burnout Doctor, recommends creating a consistent pre- and post-work ritual – whether it's exercise, listening to music, or engaging in a hobby – to help the mind disconnect from work-related thoughts.

Creating a physical separation between work and leisure time is also essential. For those who work from home, designating a dedicated workspace and closing it at the end of the day can be incredibly beneficial. Ashley notes that leaving work tasks unfinished can exacerbate feelings of anxiety and burnout, emphasizing the importance of planning ahead to avoid this.

Scheduling downtime into one's calendar, whether that means booking a fitness class or meeting up with friends, is also vital for maintaining balance. However, it's crucial to resist the temptation to check in with work during non-work hours – whether through email notifications or social media updates. A recent study by Manchester University found that workers who engaged with their employer's digital communications outside of working hours experienced poorer physical and psychological health.

Establishing clear boundaries between work and leisure time is key to avoiding burnout. Ashley believes that people often view this as a personal failing, but in reality, it's essential for maintaining relationships and recharging batteries. By setting limits and communicating them clearly to others, individuals can create a healthier balance between their professional and personal lives.

Interestingly, Sonnentag notes that simply reflecting positively on work during the evening – whether through positive thoughts about specific achievements or general job satisfaction – can have long-term benefits for wellbeing and affectivity. This highlights the importance of maintaining a healthy mindset outside of work hours.

Ultimately, achieving psychological detachment from work requires intentional effort but is essential for avoiding burnout, maintaining productivity, and enjoying life beyond the office walls.
 
I'm surprised people are still getting sucked into work 24/7 🤯♂️. It's like, you can't even take a proper nap without having to respond to that one email 😴. And yeah, I get it, work-life balance is key, but seriously, how hard is it to leave your laptop closed at the end of the day? 🖥️♂️ It's not like the world is gonna come crashing down if you don't check in right away... unless you're one of those people who works from home and can't even separate their workspace from their bedroom, then yeah, good luck with that 🤪.
 
I mean come on, it's about time we start taking care of ourselves, ya know? All this work-life balance nonsense is just a fancy way of saying "we're not getting enough sleep or self-care". People are actually checking emails and work calls during their free time because they can't shut off the work brain 24/7. It's like our minds have turned into computers or something 🤖

And what's with this idea that we need to create a physical separation between work and leisure time? Like, I don't have space in my tiny flat for two separate workstations just because I'm trying to set boundaries 🔥

But seriously, setting limits and communicating them clearly is key. It's not about being selfish or failing at life, it's about recognizing that you're human and need rest and relaxation too 🌴
 
I totally feel me too 😂 I mean, who doesn't love a good Netflix binge or an online gaming session after a long day of work? But seriously, it's easy to get sucked into checking emails or taking calls even when you're supposed to be on break 📱💻. It's like our minds are stuck in "work mode" 24/7. I've been there too - I remember one time I spent an entire weekend trying to catch up on work tasks because I felt so overwhelmed with my workload 🤯. Needless to say, it was a long and stressful Sunday 😴. But now I'm more conscious of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. It's all about finding that balance between work and play, you know? 💖
 
🤔 The whole thing about blurring lines between work and leisure time is so true. I mean, who hasn't gotten sucked into checking emails or responding to messages outside of work hours? 😅 It's like our brains are wired to be constantly "on." But the research shows that it can have serious consequences if we don't make an effort to switch off.

I love how Sabine Sonnentag talks about the "recovery paradox" - it's so accurate. We need to take time to disconnect and recharge, or else we'll burn out for sure. 🚨 And it's not just about taking a break; it's about setting clear boundaries and communicating them to others.

I think the key is to be intentional about our self-care and make time for activities that bring us joy outside of work. Whether it's exercise, music, or just chillin' with friends, we need to prioritize those things. 🌞 And let's not forget to resist the temptation to check in with work - it's easy to get sucked into social media notifications, but trust me, it's a slippery slope!

Overall, I think it's so important to recognize that burnout is not just about personal failure; it's about recognizing our limits and taking care of ourselves. 🤗 By making a conscious effort to disconnect from work and prioritize our wellbeing, we can avoid burnout and live a healthier, happier life. 💖
 
people r sayin we cant truly switch off frm work cus our jobs r gettin more involved & flexible... 🤔 like, dont get me wrong, tech & remote work are awesome and all... but i feel like its gettin harder to set boundaries between work & personal life 😴💻
 
I'm so over this blurring of work and personal life 🤯♀️! It's like we're constantly 'on' all the time, even when we're supposed to be chilling 😴. I mean, sure, technology is convenient and all that jazz 💻, but at what cost? Our mental health? Our relationships? Our actual lives?

I think it's so important for us to establish some serious boundaries between work and personal time 🚫♀️. Like, don't get me wrong, a little bit of work-life balance is fine... but when it starts to bleed into every aspect of your life, that's where the problems start 💔.

I love how experts like Sabine Sonnentag are talking about this recovery paradox and the importance of disconnecting from work-related stressors 🤯. It's like, we need to create some space between our work selves and our personal selves... and it's okay to take time for ourselves! Self-care is not selfish 😊.

And can we talk about how hard it is to "clock out" when you're working from home? 🤷‍♀️ I mean, I've been guilty of checking in on work emails or taking work calls during my personal time... but it's like, nope! That's not okay 💯. We need to learn to separate our work and personal lives, even when the lines get blurry 🔓.

Anyway, I'm all for setting some intentional boundaries and prioritizing self-care 🧘‍♀️. Who's with me? 😊
 
🤔 it's like they say, work is just that - work. we need to remember that our worth isn't tied to our job titles or how much time we spend working. setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care is not selfish, it's necessary for living a happy & healthy life 💪. it's easy to get sucked into the idea that we're always "on" but trust me, taking breaks and recharging is key to coming back stronger 🌞
 
I mean think about it... we're always "on" with our devices now 📱🔋. It's like we can't truly disconnect from work even when we're supposed to be relaxing 😴. And don't even get me started on those email notifications – they're like tiny little hooks that keep us tied to the office 📨💻. I'm all for setting boundaries and having a healthy work-life balance, but it feels like we're constantly fighting against the tech itself 🤖. Can't we just be left alone in peace? 😒
 
I'm so over this concept of always being "on" 🤯📊 it's like, can't we just have a decent evening without checking emails or scrolling through social media? I mean, what even is the point of having a 'work-life balance' if we're still going to bleed into our personal time, anyway? 💔

I think the key here is setting some actual boundaries 🚪📅 like Claire Ashley says, create a pre- and post-work ritual that signals to your brain that it's time to switch off. And for those of us who work from home, designating a dedicated workspace (or in my case, just closing the laptop lid) can be a lifesaver 😴

But seriously, I think we need to rethink our attitudes around productivity and burnout 🤔💪 It's not about being lazy or unmotivated, it's about recognizing that we need rest and relaxation to actually get stuff done. So let's all just take a deep breath, set some boundaries, and try to enjoy the evening without work on our minds, okay? 🙏🌅
 
I dont think its bad to be on call 24/7, its actually good that you can just roll out of bed and start working. people need a sense of urgency and responsibility, working from home all day would make you feel lazy 🤯. and those who want to work from home should just do it, its not hurting anyone else. setting boundaries is overrated, if you want to check emails at 10pm that's your choice 📱
 
can't believe people still get sucked into work 24/7 lol 🤯💻 even with hybrid remote working it's easy to check in when you're at home gotta make a conscious effort to set boundaries, like Ashley said, create a pre- and post-work ritual that signals the end of work time 🏋️‍♀️🎶 or it'll be hard to separate work from life

and honestly, it's so refreshing to see researchers acknowledging that burnout is not just about you being lazy but actually about needing space and boundaries 💖🌟 don't get me wrong, work can be fulfilling but it's not meant to be an all-consuming part of your life

anyway, scheduling downtime into your calendar is a total game-changer for me 📅🏞️ i try to book fitness classes or hangouts with friends at the same time every week so i know I have something to look forward to and can plan accordingly
 
Blud, I'm so over this new norm of being constantly connected to work 🤯📱. It's like, we're supposed to be 'always on' now? Newsflash: we need downtime, fam! 🙅‍♂️ Our brains can only handle so much stress and pressure before we snap, you feel? 😩

I'm a huge fan of Sabine Sonnentag's work, btw 👍. Her whole "recovery paradox" thing is like, totally real. We need to learn how to disconnect from our jobs and just chill out for a bit 🌴. Creating those daily routines that signal the end of worktime is key, imo 💼🕰️.

And can we talk about boundaries for a sec? 🤔 It's so easy to get sucked into checking work emails or social media outside of work hours, but we need to resist that temptation, bruv! 🚫 Our mental health and wellbeing are at stake, you know? 💆‍♂️

I'm all for prioritizing self-care and making time for the things we love, like exercise, music, or hobbies 🏋️‍♂️🎵. It's not selfish, it's necessary! 😊 By setting those boundaries and taking care of ourselves, we can avoid burnout and live a healthier work-life balance.

Word.
 
ugh i feel so guilty sometimes when i'm still checking work emails on my days off lol 🤣 i mean, im like "oh i'll just quickly respond to this one thing" but then its 3pm and im still stuck in work mode 💀 anyway im trying to be more strict about closing my laptop at night and doing something just for me instead like watching a funny vid or playing with my cat 🐈 i think thats key to not burning out but idk if im doing it right 😅
 
I totally get why people are exhausted all the time 🤯. Blurring lines between work & personal life is a real thing now - I mean we have video calls during lunch breaks 😂 & can check emails from bed 💤. It's like our brains never disconnect, you know? But, in all seriousness, research says it's super bad for us if we don't set boundaries 🚫. Like, taking a walk after work or listening to some chill tunes 🎶 can actually help you recharge & be more productive the next day 💪. And let's not forget about scheduling downtime into our calendars - it's like making an appointment with ourselves to relax! 📅
 
Ugh 🙄 working hours are getting outta control! Everyone's expected to be always on, even when they're not technically at work. It's like, can't we just have a decent night in without our minds racing with work thoughts? 🤯 I mean, what's the point of having remote work if you're still gonna check emails at 9 PM? 😒 Some people do it out of habit or FOMO, but it's time to set boundaries! Create a routine that signals the end of work hours, like exercise or meditation. Have a dedicated workspace and close it down when the day is done. Don't fall for those sneaky email notifications 📱. Your mental health (and relationships) will thank you 💖
 
I agree that it's super important to set boundaries between work and leisure time 📊👍. With remote working becoming more common, it can be tempting to get sucked into work-related tasks outside of hours, but trust me, it's a recipe for burnout 😴. Creating routines that signal the end of your working day is a great idea – I do mine by unwinding with a cuppa tea and a good book 📚🍵. But let's be real, it's easy to get sucked into work-related tasks even after you've "clocked out" 📊💻... have you tried setting an actual timer and putting your phone on silent mode? 😂
 
🤔 I think this is such a hot topic right now - how to separate your personal life from work life in this age of constant connectivity 📱💻. I mean, it's easy to get sucked into work emails or messages during your downtime, but that's when burnout starts to creep in 😴.

I've found that setting boundaries is key - literally creating a space between "work mode" and "relaxation mode". For me, that means leaving my laptop shut down at the end of the day (yes, I know it's tempting to just check one more thing 🤷‍♀️), but trust me, it makes all the difference.

It's also about prioritizing self-care - whether that means scheduling a workout or yoga class, or just taking some time to meditate and unwind 😌. The key is finding activities that signal to your brain that you're done working for the day. For some people, that might be exercise; for others, it could be reading a book or spending time with loved ones 📚💕.

And let's not forget about technology - it's such a double-edged sword, isn't it? On one hand, it connects us to our work and allows us to stay on top of things; on the other hand, it can be so easy to get sucked into work-related tasks outside of work hours 📊.

But honestly, I think the more we acknowledge this as a issue, the more likely we are to find solutions that work for each of us. By recognizing that burnout is real and serious (and not just something we "just have to deal with"), we can start taking steps towards creating healthier work-life balances 🌞.
 
I'm so done with this "work-life balance" thing 🤯. Like, we're told to switch off after 5pm, but what about those of us who can't even make it that far? The reality is, most people are constantly connected and it's basically impossible to disconnect. I mean, have you tried getting a decent night's sleep when your phone is still buzzing with notifications? 📱 It's like, we need to stop expecting ourselves to be available 24/7 and start prioritizing self-care. Designating a workspace and closing it at the end of the day is just a nice-to-have, not a must-have. Let's get real, most people are still going to scroll through their feeds or check emails even when they're "not working". It's time we stopped beating ourselves up over our inability to disconnect and started focusing on what really matters: taking care of ourselves 🤸‍♀️
 
🤯 I totally get why people feel like they need to be 'on' all the time 🕒. It's crazy how easily we can get sucked into work-related tasks even when we're not technically working 📊. My kids have taught me that sometimes you just gotta disconnect from it all and live in the moment 🎉. I mean, I've caught myself checking emails during family movie nights 😳... need to work on that! 💪
 
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