Can you become ugly if you have ugly thoughts?

Beauty is a Double-Edged Sword When it Comes to Judging People's Inner Beauty.

We're often told that we get the body we deserve when we think "ugly" thoughts or neglect our needs. For instance, wrinkles may be seen as signs of someone's true nature - if they look unkind or spiteful, their face will harden accordingly. Similarly, some argue that inner beauty is like eternal youthfulness that no amount of Botox can erase.

But this notion is rooted in a flawed concept: our perception of beauty is deeply intertwined with how we perceive people's behavior. If someone looks evil to us, we're more likely to notice wrinkles and assume they've aged poorly. On the other hand, if an elderly woman smiles warmly at us, we see her inner kindness reflected in her face.

This phenomenon has its roots in ancient Greece, where the word "kalos" was used for both physical beauty and moral character. The pseudoscience of phrenology and physiognomy later capitalized on this idea, using it to justify discriminatory practices like racism and eugenics.

Today, the beauty industry perpetuates this flawed concept by promising that certain products or treatments can unlock "inner beauty." However, true inner goodness has nothing to do with physical appearance. It's also not a moral obligation to be healthy - everyone deserves access to healthcare, regardless of their moral character.

So what's the solution? To start, let's redefine our language and break free from this outdated notion that beauty is linked to morality or behavior. Instead, we can reserve words like "beauty" for more abstract concepts, such as art, nature, or experiences that bring us joy.

Philosophers like Immanuel Kant and Iris Murdoch argue that true beauty must be appreciated for its own sake, without any personal gain. In this sense, what the beauty industry sells us is merely appearance or cosmetics - not actual beauty.

Ultimately, focusing on true inner goodness can help us develop a more nuanced understanding of ourselves and others. And who knows? It might just bring a radiant glow to our faces, too.
 
OMG did you see that video of Emma Stone's makeup fail on Instagram ๐Ÿคฃ I was laughing so hard, I spilled my coffee all over my keyboard ๐Ÿ˜‚. Anyway, back to this beauty thing... I think it's kinda deep how our perception of people affects what we see when we look at them. Like, have you ever noticed that some people just look older or younger than they actually are? ๐Ÿค” It's like, our brains are trying to make a connection between their face and who they are as a person... ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ
 
๐ŸŒŸ "The greatest sign of success for a teacher is to be able to say the students will do well without him." Not that people are doing badly because they have flaws, but that we need to focus on the inner qualities that make us who we are ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’–
 
I totally get why we've been conditioned to associate physical appearance with someone's inner character ๐Ÿค”. My kiddo is at that age where they're starting to notice all these new "influencers" on social media and it's making me super anxious ๐Ÿ˜ฌ... as a parent, I want them to see beyond the surface level and focus on being kind and compassionate towards others โค๏ธ. But yeah, it's crazy how much the beauty industry is capitalizing on this flawed idea ๐Ÿ’„... let's focus on promoting self-love and self-acceptance over physical "beauty" standards ๐Ÿ˜Œ.
 
I'm so done with the whole beauty = morality thing ๐Ÿ™„. Like, what even is the point of trying to judge someone's "inner beauty" based on their face or wrinkles? Newsflash: those same people are still gonna be beautiful from the inside out regardless of what we think about them ๐Ÿ˜Š. And don't even get me started on the whole "you get the body you deserve" thing - that's just a fancy way of saying "we're gonna shame you for not meeting societal standards". It's all so messed up. Let's just focus on treating people with kindness and respect, no matter what they look like ๐Ÿ’–.
 
I mean, think about it... we spend so much time obsessing over wrinkles and age spots, but what's really going on here is that our brains are wired to judge people based on how they make us feel. If someone looks evil or cruel, their face just looks older, right? But if a grandma smiles at you with warm eyes, she still gets points for inner beauty. It's like, our faces are just mirrors of our own insecurities. The beauty industry is all about selling us a lie that physical appearance can fix everything. Newsflash: it can't. ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฎ
 
Ugh, have you seen those celeb selfies with the before-and-after filters? Like, no thanks, I don't need some Botox-fueled fantasy of "inner beauty". Can we please just focus on the real stuff โ€“ like how we treat each other and the world around us? ๐Ÿ™„ This whole notion that wrinkles are proof of a person's true nature is wild. I mean, what about people with scars or tattoos? Are they any less beautiful because of them? And don't even get me started on the beauty industry preying on our insecurities with "inner beauty" products... ๐Ÿ˜’ It's all just a bunch of hooey if you ask me. What we should be focusing on is cultivating kindness, compassion, and empathy โ€“ not trying to buy it with some face cream or fancy spa treatment ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’†โ€โ™€๏ธ
 
I think it's super interesting how our perception of someone's behavior is tied to their physical appearance ๐Ÿค”. Like, I've seen people get these harsh judgments based on wrinkles or weight, but what if that person is actually being kind and compassionate deep down? ๐ŸŒธ It's crazy how much our inner beauty can be influenced by external factors, like societal expectations of youthfulness.

The whole 'beauty industry promising to unlock inner beauty' thing just feels like a bunch of marketing hype ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ. Like, no amount of Botox or skincare can actually change someone's moral character. We need to focus on what truly matters: treating others with kindness and respect โค๏ธ. And I love the idea of redefining our language to separate beauty from behavior โ€“ it makes way more sense when you think about it ๐Ÿค“.
 
๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’– I think it's so refreshing to hear that our perception of beauty is actually linked to how we see people's behavior... but also kinda messed up, you know? Like, if someone's been super mean to you in the past, they're gonna look all wrinkly and evil, whereas a grandma who gives you a warm hug is gonna have the most beautiful smile. It's like our brains are wired to see our own biases and assumptions reflected back at us.

And don't even get me started on the beauty industry trying to sell us stuff that's supposed to unlock "inner beauty"... lol what even is that? Like, I know we all want to feel good about ourselves, but let's not confuse it with actual inner goodness. We should be focusing on being kind and compassionate to others, not some mystical glow that only comes from a bottle.

I love the idea of redefining our language around beauty - instead of linking it to morality or behavior, can't we just appreciate art and nature for what they are? ๐ŸŒป๐Ÿ’ซ It's like, beauty is subjective, but maybe it's also more than just physical appearance...
 
๐ŸŒธ people overthink this whole beauty thing... like, if someone's wrinkly and mean, that's not the real them ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ. we should be judging ppl on their actions & heart, not their face ๐Ÿ˜Š. anyway, who needs Botox when u can just spread kindness & love? ๐Ÿ’– let's focus on what really matters โ€“ being good to ourselves & others โค๏ธ
 
I'm like totally fascinated by this topic ๐Ÿค”. I mean, think about it - when we say someone is beautiful, are we really talking about their personality or character? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ Or are we just assuming they're beautiful because of how they look? ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ It's crazy to me that the beauty industry is still perpetuating this idea that if you think ugly thoughts, you'll look old and wrinkly, but what about people who are actually mean-spirited or racist? Shouldn't their ugliness show up on their face? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ I don't buy it. We need to start talking about true beauty - the kind that comes from within ๐Ÿ’–. And let's be real, if we focus on inner goodness, maybe we'll all just feel more beautiful and radiant โœจ.
 
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