A Toxic Friendship Taking a Toll on Two Women
In a disturbing case of codependency, two friends have found themselves entangled in an emotionally draining relationship with their mutual friend's boyfriend, Angus. Despite growing up together and sharing numerous life experiences, their friendship has become increasingly one-sided as they repeatedly prioritize maintaining the toxic dynamic over their own well-being.
The situation took a drastic turn when Angus broke up with his previous girlfriend, allowing him to "get close" to Brooke. However, it soon became apparent that his intentions were far from genuine. Brooke's relationships with her family and friends have deteriorated significantly due to Angus' abusive behavior, which includes name-calling, emotional manipulation, and controlling her every move.
Despite being urged by her loved ones to end the relationship, Brooke remains stuck in a cycle of self-destruction. Her recent decision to get a puppy with Angus has further raised concerns about the potential risks to both Brooke and the animal. It's clear that she needs support, but instead of seeking it from friends and family, she's choosing to navigate this difficult situation alone.
In another heart-wrenching scenario, another friend has been left feeling hurt and betrayed after her longtime companion suddenly distanced herself over the past two years. The two women were once inseparable, sharing countless memories and experiences, but their friendship took a drastic turn when Brooke decided not to invite her over or engage in conversations about their shared lives.
It's understandable that Gag Order feels hurt by this sudden change, but it's essential to recognize that Brooke's behavior is not about her or Gag Order's newfound status as a grandmother; it's about Brooke's inability to break free from the toxic relationship. Rather than trying to understand and empathize with Brooke's perspective, Gag Order can take steps to reestablish boundaries by limiting their interactions in a way that doesn't trigger feelings of sadness and depression.
As Dear Abby reminds us, sometimes difficult conversations require distance and understanding rather than advice or judgment. It's time for both women to prioritize their own well-being and take control of their lives – even if it means confronting the painful reality that their friendship has become unsustainable in its current form.
In a disturbing case of codependency, two friends have found themselves entangled in an emotionally draining relationship with their mutual friend's boyfriend, Angus. Despite growing up together and sharing numerous life experiences, their friendship has become increasingly one-sided as they repeatedly prioritize maintaining the toxic dynamic over their own well-being.
The situation took a drastic turn when Angus broke up with his previous girlfriend, allowing him to "get close" to Brooke. However, it soon became apparent that his intentions were far from genuine. Brooke's relationships with her family and friends have deteriorated significantly due to Angus' abusive behavior, which includes name-calling, emotional manipulation, and controlling her every move.
Despite being urged by her loved ones to end the relationship, Brooke remains stuck in a cycle of self-destruction. Her recent decision to get a puppy with Angus has further raised concerns about the potential risks to both Brooke and the animal. It's clear that she needs support, but instead of seeking it from friends and family, she's choosing to navigate this difficult situation alone.
In another heart-wrenching scenario, another friend has been left feeling hurt and betrayed after her longtime companion suddenly distanced herself over the past two years. The two women were once inseparable, sharing countless memories and experiences, but their friendship took a drastic turn when Brooke decided not to invite her over or engage in conversations about their shared lives.
It's understandable that Gag Order feels hurt by this sudden change, but it's essential to recognize that Brooke's behavior is not about her or Gag Order's newfound status as a grandmother; it's about Brooke's inability to break free from the toxic relationship. Rather than trying to understand and empathize with Brooke's perspective, Gag Order can take steps to reestablish boundaries by limiting their interactions in a way that doesn't trigger feelings of sadness and depression.
As Dear Abby reminds us, sometimes difficult conversations require distance and understanding rather than advice or judgment. It's time for both women to prioritize their own well-being and take control of their lives – even if it means confronting the painful reality that their friendship has become unsustainable in its current form.
she needs someone to talk to, but at the same time, Angus is being super toxic... 
I don't think it's fair on her friends and family who are trying to help. Like, they're not asking her to be besties with everyone, just some boundaries would make a huge difference. 
It's not Brooke's fault that she got stuck in this relationship, and we can't judge Gag Order for feeling hurt and betrayed... 
sometimes people need space when things get tough. Maybe a big group chat or a neutral third party could be like an intervention of sorts? 
And yeah, getting a puppy with Angus is not a good idea at all... 
I'm so concerned about Brooke, she sounds like trapped in a nightmare. How can someone let themselves get into such a toxic situation? 
And what about Gag Order, it's understandable that she feels hurt and betrayed. But maybe instead of being all "it's not about me", Brooke should be like "it's not about you either, I need some space". Setting boundaries is key here! 
. And Gag Order is just getting hurt because she can't understand why her bestie would do that to themselves 
. Newsflash: it's not about you, girl – it's about Brooke breaking free from this toxic cycle before someone gets seriously hurt 
. I'm all for giving people space and letting them figure things out on their own, but only if it doesn't harm others in the process 
. I wish Brooke would get help or therapy, maybe she doesn't even realize the harm she's causing herself and others 
. btw, who else thinks it's messed up that Brooke got a puppy with her bf?! like what about the poor pup?! 
maybe she can start by setting boundaries & taking breaks from the situation - we need more self-love in this toxic friendship situation 
meanwhile, her friends are over here trying to survive the emotional fallout of being left behind 
and honestly, getting a puppy with Angus is just salt in the wound 
she needs to prioritize her own well-being and surround herself with people who actually care about her 
, it's clear Brooke's not getting out of this toxic cycle anytime soon. It's like, how many times can you get hurt before you realize it's time to break free? 
And what about that poor puppy 
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. And it's not just the relationship with Angus, it's like they've lost touch with each other too 
. They used to be these two amazing friends, but now... I don't even recognize them anymore 
... not just the toxic ones, but also the healthy ones 
. We should be supporting Brooke more rather than just telling her what she should do (like get a puppy with someone who might hurt you) 
. Gag Order needs to prioritize her own feelings and take care of herself, it's time for both women to grow up and move on 
. The fact that Gag Order is feeling hurt but not acknowledging Brooke's actions is sad too 
But I feel like we're rushing to judge her too much? Maybe she's stuck in this cycle because she doesn't know how to get out of it? We need to be more understanding instead of saying "she should just leave him" 
