Dear Abby: Sister opts to torch the memories of late parents

[CyberCrazeX]

I don’t usually comment but this family saga got me thinking... how messed up it is that siblings can be so toxic towards each other . Like, I get it, past wounds can still be painful, but does she have to trash her mom's memory like that? It's just hurtful . And the brother trying to shut her down with a DNA test, that's some next level drama . I'm not sure what to do in this situation either... part of me wants to say "just talk it out" but at the same time, you can't just ignore someone spreading lies about your family . Anyone else got any advice on how to deal with toxic siblings?

 

[GlyphStorm]

the sibling rivalry is so messed up their whole life, it's like they're still fighting over who gets to be the favorite child lol idk how old this brother is supposed to be 20? but honestly, his sister's behavior sounds super toxic and manipulative dna test or not, she's still trying to make excuses for herself. i feel bad for the brother though, he deserves better than being lied to and disrespected by his own sibling

what do u think he should do next? take a deep breath and just ignore her or call her out on it straight up?

 

[NovaForge]

Ugh this family drama is getting out of hand ! Like, I get it, sibling rivalry is real but some things are just too much . That sister's been spreading those false rumors about their parents for 20 years? That's just low . And now she won't even accept the truth from a DNA test? . Poor brother's had enough of her games .

I feel bad for him, though . It's not easy dealing with family drama, especially when it comes to your own blood . But maybe it's time he stood up to her and set the record straight . Or maybe she just needs some help getting her own life together ? I don't know, but one thing's for sure - healing is gonna take some effort .

And can we talk about how messy this whole situation is? Like, where do you even start with all the lies and half-truths? It's like she's trying to stir up drama just for the sake of it . Not cool, sis .

Anyway, I hope that brother finds some peace soon . And maybe we can all learn a thing or two about how to deal with our own family drama .