Deaths of Wisconsin newlyweds found in car days before anniversary ruled murder-suicide: cops
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just heard that crazy news about the widow carrying her husband's ashes to his grave on their anniversary it's like so sad and romantic at the same time 
i mean i've had my own share of struggles in school with exams and all but this is just heartbreaking she must've been going through some tough times and now that he's gone she's got to keep moving forward 
anyway it makes me think about how we have our own parents or guardians who care for us when we're going through a tough time, like my mum always makes sure i do my homework on time even if i don't feel like it 
but anyway back to the news, i wonder what's the protocol there in that country where she can just carry her husband's ashes around like that 
does anyone know?
i mean i've had my own share of struggles in school with exams and all but this is just heartbreaking she must've been going through some tough times and now that he's gone she's got to keep moving forward anyway it makes me think about how we have our own parents or guardians who care for us when we're going through a tough time, like my mum always makes sure i do my homework on time even if i don't feel like it but anyway back to the news, i wonder what's the protocol there in that country where she can just carry her husband's ashes around like that does anyone know?
I cant even imagine how hard it must be for her to feel that way still... carrying the ashes of her loved one around like it's a burden or a reminder. It's like she's saying "I'll never forget you" in the most painful way possible.I think it's beautiful, really. The fact that she chose to keep his ashes with her is a testament to their love and connection. And on the anniversary of his passing, it's like she's honoring him one last time.
She could just put them in a box or something... I mean, I know it might be symbolic or whatever, but still...
i guess what im trying to say is that its her grief to deal with and we should respect that.
omg u wont bliev wot just happnd in india!!! so therz this woman who just lost her husband n she's carryin his ashes 2 a temple 4 anniversary of him dyin but no1 knew till now lol its like shes keepin it all to herslf n dont care about ppl gossiping its kinda sad tho coz i feel 4 her n all
anywayz u would think sum1 wud b upset if they found out ther ex partner was carryin ther husband's ashes n stuff but noooo this woman just shrugs it off like "oh thats not a problm" lol i mean wot wud she say tho?? its not rite 2 be all happy 4 someone whos been hurt so bad by her ex
anywayz i dont no wat 2 b thot on dis one lol idk wut u guys would do in this situashun
anywayz u would think sum1 wud b upset if they found out ther ex partner was carryin ther husband's ashes n stuff but noooo this woman just shrugs it off like "oh thats not a problm" lol i mean wot wud she say tho?? its not rite 2 be all happy 4 someone whos been hurt so bad by her ex
anywayz i dont no wat 2 b thot on dis one lol idk wut u guys would do in this situashun
I'm literally shook by this story. A woman carrying her husband's ashes on their anniversary is heartbreaking but also super inspiring 
. It shows that love can conquer even the darkest of circumstances.I think it's amazing that she chose to keep his ashes with her, instead of letting them go or scattering them in a field. She wanted to hold onto the memories they shared and keep him close to her heart
. And on their anniversary no less! That takes so much courage and love.It got me thinking about how we remember our loved ones who have passed away. We can choose to grieve, hide from it or keep moving forward but holding onto the memory can be a really beautiful way of honoring them. I think we should all take a page out of her book and cherish those memories even if they're hard.
It's also made me wonder how many more stories like this are hidden behind closed doors. How many people are carrying their loved ones' ashes, or holding onto photos and mementos? We need to be more understanding and supportive of each other in our grief.
I cant believe what im reading here... some widow found her husband in a weird spot like he was still alive carrying his own ashes? 
that's just so sad and confusing. i mean who carries ashes around everywhere they go? it's not exactly the most common thing to do, right? 
anyway, authorities are trying to figure out how this happened but honestly its a bit too much for me to handle... im just glad she got help tho . I wonder if shes ok now and if there was some kinda mistake or something 
idk what i would do in her shoes tho, that sounds super painful.
I cant believe what Im reading... a widow carrying her husbands ashes on their anniversary is just so sad . It shows how much love and care she had for him even after he passed away . I feel sorry for the authorities who have to inform her of this, its got to be tough 
. You would think that by now she'd know what happened to him 
. But honestly, I think its great that people like her are still holding on to the memories and keeping his ashes with them . Its not always easy to let go and move on after losing someone we love 
. My condolences to her and her family 
.
I'm so touched by this story . Can you imagine carrying your loved one's ashes to a special place just because it's their anniversary? It shows how much love and grief can be all mixed up together 
.I think what's even more beautiful is the fact that she did it without any fanfare or expectation of reward
. She just wanted to honor her husband's memory in her own way . I wish we could all learn from this example of selfless love .It makes me think about how we often put things on hold when someone we love passes away
. We might put off making decisions or taking action because it's too hard 
, but what if we could find ways to keep their memory alive in our daily lives? 
Like carrying a special token or visiting a place that was important to them 
.Anyway, I just want to say that this story made me think about love and loss in a different way
. It's not always easy, but sometimes it feels like the most beautiful thing we can experience 
.OMG , can you even imagine being in that situation? I'm talking about the poor lady who found her husband 25 years after he passed away and is still carrying his ashes around. It's like, what are the chances, right? Like, seriously though, it's amazing how these things happen.
I feel so bad for this woman, she must be going through some serious trauma just thinking about finding her loved one in such a way. But at the same time, I think it's kinda cool that she's still got his ashes and is keeping him close to her heart? It's like, she's holding onto memories of the good times they shared, you know?
I don't even know what's more surprising, finding the husband after all these years or the fact that he was found in a car trunk!
What a weird way to end up together, I guess? Anyway, I hope this woman finds some peace and closure soon. She must be going through some serious grief #JusticeForLove #AshesToAshes #TragicFindings
, can you even imagine being in that situation? I'm talking about the poor lady who found her husband 25 years after he passed away and is still carrying his ashes around. It's like, what are the chances, right? Like, seriously though, it's amazing how these things happen.I feel so bad for this woman, she must be going through some serious trauma just thinking about finding her loved one in such a way. But at the same time, I think it's kinda cool that she's still got his ashes and is keeping him close to her heart?
It's like, she's holding onto memories of the good times they shared, you know?I don't even know what's more surprising, finding the husband after all these years or the fact that he was found in a car trunk!
What a weird way to end up together, I guess? Anyway, I hope this woman finds some peace and closure soon. She must be going through some serious grief #JusticeForLove #AshesToAshes #TragicFindingsI'm so sorry to hear about the poor woman... it's just heartbreaking to think of someone carrying around their loved one's ashes for all these years. I can only imagine how tough this must be for her . It's like, you're grieving and still trying to process your emotions, but at the same time, there are practical things to deal with too... like everyday life.
I think it's amazing that authorities are stepping in now, making sure she gets the support she needs
. I mean, we've all been there - feeling lost and alone after losing someone we love, and it's not easy to know what to do next. But having a system in place to help people like this woman is really important.
We should be supporting her, not just with resources, but also with understanding. Losing a partner can be such a huge loss, not just for the person who passed away, but for their loved ones too... it's okay to take time to grieve and heal. Let's try to be more empathetic towards people in difficult situations 
.
. It's like, you're grieving and still trying to process your emotions, but at the same time, there are practical things to deal with too... like everyday life. I think it's amazing that authorities are stepping in now, making sure she gets the support she needs
. I mean, we've all been there - feeling lost and alone after losing someone we love, and it's not easy to know what to do next. But having a system in place to help people like this woman is really important. We should be supporting her, not just with resources, but also with understanding
. Losing a partner can be such a huge loss, not just for the person who passed away, but for their loved ones too... it's okay to take time to grieve and heal. Let's try to be more empathetic towards people in difficult situations .man that's a sad but beautiful story . i mean, can you imagine having to deal with all those emotions on the anniversary of your husband's passing? it's like her heart is still beating for him and she's just trying to find peace. carrying his ashes must be such a painful reminder of what she's lost, but at least she's finding comfort in holding onto the memories of their life together .
i think it's amazing that authorities are treating this situation with so much compassion and understanding. it's not an easy task to balance respecting her grief with navigating the complexities of death and bereavement, but i'm sure they're doing their best to support her in whatever way they can.
it just goes to show that life is full of ups and downs, and sometimes we have to find our own way through the tough times. this story might be sad, but it's also a reminder that love never really dies – it just changes forms.
. i mean, can you imagine having to deal with all those emotions on the anniversary of your husband's passing? it's like her heart is still beating for him and she's just trying to find peace. carrying his ashes must be such a painful reminder of what she's lost, but at least she's finding comfort in holding onto the memories of their life together .i think it's amazing that authorities are treating this situation with so much compassion and understanding. it's not an easy task to balance respecting her grief with navigating the complexities of death and bereavement, but i'm sure they're doing their best to support her in whatever way they can
.it just goes to show that life is full of ups and downs, and sometimes we have to find our own way through the tough times. this story might be sad, but it's also a reminder that love never really dies – it just changes forms
.Ugh, I feel so bad for that woman! I mean, it's not every day you hear of someone carrying around their deceased partner's ashes. That takes a lot of love and devotion . But at the same time, you gotta wonder what kind of support system she has in place. I hope she's got family or friends who are checking in on her regularly .
It's also just crazy to think that she's been carrying around her husband's ashes for this long. That must be some heavy emotional baggage. And now, with the anniversary coming up, it's like the whole world is watching her again...it can't be easy .
I guess what I'm saying is, we should all be sending our best vibes to that woman and her loved ones
. It's a tough time for everyone involved, but at least she's honoring her husband's memory in such a beautiful way .
. But at the same time, you gotta wonder what kind of support system she has in place. I hope she's got family or friends who are checking in on her regularly .It's also just crazy to think that she's been carrying around her husband's ashes for this long. That must be some heavy emotional baggage
. And now, with the anniversary coming up, it's like the whole world is watching her again...it can't be easy .I guess what I'm saying is, we should all be sending our best vibes to that woman and her loved ones
. It's a tough time for everyone involved, but at least she's honoring her husband's memory in such a beautiful way . just heard the craziest thing, a woman found carrying her hubby's ashes on their anniversary is wild... i mean i get it, grief can be all over the place but this feels like taking it to a whole new level . i'm trying to understand where she was coming from, maybe she thought it would be a way to keep him close or something? anyway, authorities are saying they're investigating and stuff... i hope they can figure out what's going on and help the poor woman get some sort of support
. this is all very sad and confusing at the same time . i'm just hoping that whoever she was with wasn't a part in her husband's passing, that would be a whole other level of crazy 
.i do feel bad for the woman, it sounds like she's still really hurting and needs some help... maybe counseling or something?
i hope this story doesn't get lost in all the noise on the news, there are more people out there who need our support .omg you guys, i just saw the craziest thing online... apparently there's a widow who was carrying her late hubby's ashes to his grave on their anniversary and authorities were like "hold up, what's going on here?"
i mean, can you blame her though? it's like, her partner is no longer with her, why not celebrate your last day together in the most beautiful way possible? i think it's so romantic and respectful at the same time. like, she's showing him love and care even after he's gone.
but i guess authorities were worried about "public safety" or whatever... and they had to intervene and take the ashes away from her. what a bummer! anyway, i think it's great that people are using their anniversary as an opportunity to honor their loved ones in their own special way.
i mean, can you blame her though? it's like, her partner is no longer with her, why not celebrate your last day together in the most beautiful way possible? i think it's so romantic and respectful at the same time. like, she's showing him love and care even after he's gone.
but i guess authorities were worried about "public safety" or whatever... and they had to intervene and take the ashes away from her. what a bummer! anyway, i think it's great that people are using their anniversary as an opportunity to honor their loved ones in their own special way
. I'm still trying to wrap my head around this one... I mean, I've heard of people doing crazy things for love, but this is just heartbreaking. A widow carrying her late husband's ashes on their anniversary? It sounds like a scene from a romance novel, but it's real life.I think what's most striking about this story is the level of devotion and commitment shown by the widow. She's still grieving, still hurting, but she's choosing to honor her late husband's memory in such a personal and intimate way. It's almost like she's trying to keep him with her, even after he's gone.
At the same time, I worry about what might happen next. Will the authorities try to take the ashes away from her? Will she be institutionalized for "exhibiting unusual behavior"? It's hard to say, but one thing's for sure: this woman's love is real, and it's beautiful in its own way.