'He asked me what I'd done sexually with a woman': how Joy Gharoro-Akpojotor turned her asylum grilling into a film

A Nigerian-British filmmaker recently faced an awkward moment after screening her debut feature film 'Dreamers' at the London Film Festival. Joy Gharoro-Akpojotor's semi-autobiographical love story set in an immigration detention centre elicited a response from a gruff caseworker during her asylum interview: "What have you done sexually with a woman? What have you done sexually with a man?" The question was part of a series that left the filmmaker bewildered, as the caseworker seemed to be probing for information about her sexuality.

Gharoro-Akpojotor recalled that she had been warned that her asylum application could take years to process. But thanks to a rapport-building session with a Home Office caseworker from Dagenham, where Gharoro-Akpojotor worked in a bookmaker's, the caseworker unexpectedly approved her claim. While this development was fortunate for the filmmaker, it highlights the issues of immigration and the human experience that her film aims to address.

The 'Dreamers' film portrays the grim reality of the UK immigration system, which fails to listen to its applicants or consider their stories. However, Gharoro-Akpojotor's movie also offers a message of hope through its portrayal of female friendships and romance in the detention centre. The script subtly challenges stereotypes about refugees, depicting characters who are intelligent, funny, and multifaceted.

As for the recent protests against hotels housing asylum seekers, Gharoro-Akpojotor expressed her disapproval, arguing that these protests should be directed at the government rather than against those seeking refuge. Her goal is to create films that challenge people's perceptions of social issues, inspiring empathy and understanding towards individuals from diverse backgrounds.

Gharoro-Akpojotor has built a reputation as a rising star producer in the film industry, producing movies such as 'Blue Story' and 'Boxing Day'. With her upcoming project about a young man with mental health problems, she aims to promote empathy and challenge viewers to reevaluate their perceptions of others.
 
man I was watching this old episode of star trek yesterday ๐Ÿš€๐Ÿ‘ฝ and I started thinking about how much I love the whole "unknown" thing in sci-fi, like no one really knows what's going on behind those doors or in that room... it's so cool! anyway back to immigration, have you ever noticed how hard it is for people to just get a visa or residency without having their life story scrutinized? it's like, can't we just give ppl a break and let them settle down already? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ
 
just think about it ๐Ÿคฏ... if we're tryna make films that educate people & challenge stereotypes, why do we still have ppl protesting hotels for asylum seekers instead of goin after the gov't? ๐Ÿ˜” seems like the gov't is gettin away with a lot here... maybe Gharoro-Akpojotor's right, we need to start changin the conversation ๐Ÿ“ข๐Ÿ‘ฅ

[link to BBC News article about the protests](https://www.bbc.com/news/av/uk-62622168/asylum-seekers-face-backlash-over-hotel-protests)

[link to an interview with Joy Gharoro-Akpojotor on The Guardian](https://www.theguardian.com/film/2025/aug/15/joy-gharorokaopoctor-on-dreamers-and-the-challenge-of-portraying-refugees)
 
I'm literally shook by this story ๐Ÿคฏ. A filmmaker's personal info being asked during an asylum interview is just not okay. I mean, can't we focus on the issues at hand instead of prying into people's private lives? ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ It's so sad that Joy had to go through that, especially since she was already feeling uncertain about her application process.

But what really gets me is how the film 'Dreamers' highlights the importance of empathy and understanding. We need more stories like this, you know? Ones that challenge our perceptions and make us see the humanity in people from different backgrounds ๐ŸŒŽ. It's a reminder that we're all just trying to survive and thrive, regardless of where we come from.

I'm so inspired by Joy's work and her message of hope ๐Ÿ’ซ. We need more creators like her who are using their platforms to promote empathy and understanding. Let's keep spreading love and kindness, one story at a time ๐ŸŒˆ
 
can't believe what's going on in the UK right now... people protesting hotels for asylum seekers is just so unfair ๐Ÿค•... they're protesting against people who are trying to start a new life, seeking refuge from war or persecution... shouldn't we be supporting them instead of judging them? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ and it's not like they're even being considered as individuals in the asylum process... they're just seen as numbers or statistics... anyway, I'm glad someone is making films about these issues, maybe it'll raise awareness and change some minds ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ
 
I'm totally baffled by this news ๐Ÿคฏ. I mean, can you imagine being asked such personal questions during an asylum interview? It's like, what even is that? ๐Ÿ˜ณ The fact that the caseworker just kept pushing for info about Joy's sex life is just wrong, you know? Like, isn't their job to assess her claim based on her experiences and story? ๐Ÿค”

And it's so frustrating that this kind of thing happens in a country that's supposed to be all about welcoming diversity and inclusivity. I mean, the UK immigration system should be designed to support people seeking refuge, not make them feel like they're being interrogated. It's just common sense, right? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

But what really gets me is that Joy's film 'Dreamers' actually addresses some of these issues and offers a message of hope. I love how it challenges stereotypes about refugees and shows characters who are multifaceted and relatable. And her protests against anti-asylum seeker protests? Totally on point, in my opinion ๐Ÿ’ฏ. We should be directing our outrage at the government for not doing enough to support asylum seekers, not at the people seeking refuge themselves. It's just basic human decency, you know? ๐Ÿ˜Š
 
omg u gotta feel for this nigerian-british filmmaker who just had an awkward moment at the london film festival ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ๐ŸŽฅ her debut feature film "dreamers" is literally about immigration detention centres and she's already dealing with caseworker drama that's, like, super personal ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™‚๏ธ asking about ur sexuality during asylum interviews? no thank u ๐Ÿ‘‹

but on a more serious note, i love how this filmmaker is using her platform to address the issues of immigration and human rights ๐ŸŒŽ it's so important we listen to ppl's stories and experiences, especially those who are struggling for acceptance ๐Ÿค— and btw, can we pls direct our frustrations towards govts instead of asylum seekers? ๐Ÿšซ๐Ÿ‘Š
 
๐Ÿ˜’ I mean, can you believe this? The platform's chat section is still super glitchy today, like it freezes every 5 minutes or something. Okay, anyway... Gharoro-Akpojotor's film 'Dreamers' sounds like a real tear-jerker. It's kinda messed up that the caseworker asked those kinds of questions during her asylum interview though. I don't think anyone should have to go through that kind of awkwardness. And honestly, who knew immigration interviews could be so... uncomfortable? ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ The film's goal of promoting empathy and understanding is totally on point, though. We need more movies like this to humanize people from diverse backgrounds. But can we please just get a stable chat section for once? I'm tired of losing my train of thought every time the platform freezes. ๐Ÿ’ป
 
๐Ÿค” it's so frustrating when u're tryin 2 share ur story & be heard, but ppl r more interested in pryin into ur personal life ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ i mean, caseworker's gotta focus on the asylum app, not gettin all up in the filmmaker's biz ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ anyway, love that the film is sparkin conversations about immigration & human experience ๐ŸŒŽ hope it continues 2 inspire empathy & understanding ๐Ÿค—
 
๐Ÿค” this is so messed up lol ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ who asks those kinda questions in an asylum interview? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ like what does that even have to do with anything? ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ the fact that the caseworker approved her claim after a rapport-building session just proves that personal connections can make all the difference ๐Ÿ˜Š and i love how Joy Gharoro-Akpojotor is using her platform to challenge stereotypes and promote empathy ๐Ÿ’– her film 'Dreamers' is so brave and necessary ๐ŸŒŸ we need more stories like this one ๐Ÿ‘
 
๐Ÿค” This whole immigration system thing is just so messed up in the UK, it's like they're trying to make life even harder for people who are already going through so much trauma. ๐ŸŒŽ I mean, can you imagine having to deal with that kind of scrutiny and then being asked about your personal life? It's just not right. ๐Ÿ˜ฉ The film 'Dreamers' is a great way to bring attention to this issue, but it's also really frustrating that it has to be portrayed like this in the first place. ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ The fact that Joy Gharoro-Akpojotor had to go through an asylum interview and still managed to get her claim approved because of a good rapport with a caseworker is just a microcosm of the whole system being broken. ๐Ÿ’” We need more films like 'Dreamers' that challenge our perceptions and inspire empathy, but we also need real change on the ground. ๐ŸŒˆ
 
omg u guys i cant even ๐Ÿ’” this is soooo sad the way that caseworker was asking her personal questions during asylum interview it's like totally unacceptable ๐Ÿคฏ especially considering joy gharoro-akpojotor worked in a bookmaker's and all she's trying to do is build rapport with the person and get her claim approved ๐Ÿ™ meanwhile protests against hotels housing asylum seekers are like really not fair ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ they should be directed at the government instead of ppl just trying to survive ๐Ÿ‘ฎโ€โ™€๏ธ
 
omg what was going thru that caseworker's head?? ๐Ÿคฏ like seriously who asks those kinda questions? ๐Ÿ˜‚ and on the bright side thats like super nice of the caseworker to approve her claim tho ๐Ÿ’• but honestly i feel bad for the filmmaker having to go thru all that ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ & im so down 4 more films from her btw has she got a trailer out yet?? ๐ŸŽฅ๐Ÿ‘€
 
๐Ÿค” This whole asylum interview thing is so messed up! I mean, what kind of question is that? Asking someone if they've done something they shouldn't have because of their sexuality? It's like, hello, it's not about the person's past experiences, it's about giving them a chance to start anew. ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ

I love that Joy Gharoro-Akpojotor is making films that challenge people's perceptions and promote empathy. We need more stories like hers out there, you know? It's so easy to get caught up in the headlines and the protests, but we should be directing our attention at the real issue: welcoming people with open arms instead of turning them away.

I'm also loving her experience with the caseworker who ended up approving her claim. That just shows that sometimes things can work out in unexpected ways if you approach it with kindness and understanding. ๐Ÿ’– Can't we all learn from Joy's story?
 
๐Ÿค” The recent protests against hotels housing asylum seekers is really problematic. It's like, they're protesting the ppl who are already in a super vulnerable position, trying to find refuge. Shouldn't we be directing our energy at the system that's failing them instead? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ It's so important for us to promote empathy and understanding towards people from diverse backgrounds, especially when it comes to social issues like immigration. We need more films like 'Dreamers' that humanize the experience of asylum seekers, you know? โœจ
 
๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ gotta say, this is wild ๐ŸŒช๏ธ! Like, who asks someone for their sex history during an asylum interview? ๐Ÿ˜ณ that's some messed up stuff right there ๐Ÿ’” And I'm all for Joy Gharoro-Akpojotor speaking out against the protests against hotels housing asylum seekers - it's like, don't target the people seeking help, target the system that's flawed in the first place ๐Ÿค anyway, 'Dreamers' is def a film worth checking out ๐ŸŽฅ
 
its crazy that this kinda thing happens at an asylum interview lol... its like the person is trying to test her boundaries or something ๐Ÿคฏ like, what does any of that have to do with her application? but on a more serious note, its a reminder of how tough the immigration system can be for ppl. joy gharonro-akpojotor is doing some amazing work with her film 'dreamers' and i think it's great that she's speaking out against these protests... maybe we should focus on building bridges instead of tearing ppl down ๐ŸŒ‰
 
I'm so glad Joy Gharoro-Akpojotor is using her platform to create films that tackle tough issues like immigration and the UK asylum system ๐Ÿ™Œ. Her film 'Dreamers' is a powerful reminder that everyone deserves respect and empathy, regardless of their background or circumstances ๐Ÿ˜Š. The fact that she was able to turn an awkward moment into a message of hope for her fellow asylum seekers is truly inspiring ๐Ÿ’–. And I have to agree with her on the protests against hotels housing asylum seekers - it's time we focus on holding our governments accountable for creating humane policies rather than targeting those who are just trying to survive ๐ŸŒŽ. Can't wait to see more films from her in the future!
 
It's wild how much personal info you gotta share when going through the asylum process, isn't it? ๐Ÿคฏ I mean, imagine being asked that on camera... like, what even is the point of knowing someone's sex life when they're just trying to start a new life? It's like, we get it, you're trying to vet them, but do you really need to know their personal history that deep? ๐Ÿค” And yet, at the same time, it highlights how messed up our system is - people are literally being held in detention centers for years because they can't get a simple answer to that question... it's just, like, so human, you know? We all deserve some dignity and respect, no matter what our story is. ๐Ÿ™
 
omg this is so wrong ๐Ÿคฏ like can u imagine being asked that in an asylum interview? the UK immigration system needs major reform ASAP ๐Ÿ’ช it's already hard enough for ppl to navigate, but being grilled about ur sexuality? no thanks ๐Ÿ˜ฉ anyway i think Gharoro-Akpojotor's film is a great way to bring attention to these issues and promote empathy. we need more stories like hers that showcase the humanity behind our immigration system ๐ŸŒŽ
 
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