I yearn for my mother’s beloved rice pudding — so will you

As the first day of January dawns, my family and I find ourselves enveloped in a month of indulgence – particularly sweet treats. Birthdays are marked with every slice of cake devoured to satisfaction, while visits to restaurants involve an unwavering request for dessert, no matter how full our plates may be. Yet, there's one indulgence that reigns supreme in my household: my mother's homemade rice pudding, affectionately known as Payesh.

In the world of South Asian cuisine, this creamy dessert is celebrated under various names – Kheer, Khiri, Phirni, Payasam, Paal Payasam, and Gil-e-Firdaus. Each term weaves a thread into the rich tapestry of history surrounding its origin. According to Riyadh-based pastry chef and food journalist Nashwa Ansari, Ayurvedic texts attest to Kheer's long-standing presence in South Asian diets, making it an integral part of our cultural heritage.

Payesh itself has been around for nearly 2,000 years, dating back to ancient times as an offering at the Lord Jagannath Temple in Orissa. Today, this dessert is more than just a sweet treat; it symbolizes prosperity and good fortune, often served during special occasions such as birthdays, weddings, festivals, and baby showers.

As I've grown older, my appreciation for Payesh has evolved from mere taste to an admiration of its understated beauty. Unlike some desserts that demand attention, Payesh is humble yet richly rewarding. The process of making it is almost meditative – watching the rice grains being washed under running water, stirring in the milk with crushed cardamom pods, and then carefully balancing heat to achieve that perfect creamy consistency.

My fondness for Payesh is more than just a childhood memory; it's an emotional connection to my family's cultural traditions. When I'm away from home, there's only one way to satisfy my cravings – learning to make Payesh myself. The intimidating prospect of replicating my mother's recipe was soon alleviated when I found the process both soothing and rewarding.

If you're craving something sweet this January, give this recipe a try. Inspired by my mother's homemade Payesh, it offers a deliciously non-dairy option for those who prefer to avoid lactose. As with any dessert worth its salt, patience is key – cooking time may stretch, but the end result is well worth the wait.

For me, making Payesh will be an ongoing journey, one that weaves my mother's legacy into my own culinary endeavors. Each delicate spoonful holds a piece of our family's cultural history and my heart beats faster at the thought of relishing this timeless dessert with loved ones in the years to come.
 
I'm totally obsessed with desserts during January 🍰👍! My fave is rice pudding, Payesh (or Kheer, depends on where you're from 😂). I love how it's been around for 2k yrs & still holds so much cultural significance 🤯. What I think is most beautiful about Payesh is that it's not just a tasty treat, but also a symbol of prosperity & good fortune 💫. The process of making it can be super meditative too - I mean who doesn't love watching rice grains get washed under running water? 😂👀
 
I'm still trying to wrap my head around how some desserts can evoke such strong emotions & nostalgia 🤩... like Payesh, it's crazy how a simple dish can be linked to history & cultural heritage. I love how the author is passing down their mom's recipe to them & it's almost therapeutic to make it too 😌. As for me, I'm more of a cookie kind of person, but hey, if you're into rice pudding, go for it! 🍪👍
 
I mean, think about it... we're so caught up in the indulgence of life, aren't we? Sweet treats and all that... but is it really about the taste, or is it about the memories we make while savoring them? Like, when I'm making Payesh with my mom, it's not just about following a recipe, it's about passing down traditions and connecting with our roots. And that's what gets me... the idea of timelessness in food, you know? Just like how Payesh has been around for 2,000 years, its significance goes beyond the taste. It's about culture, heritage, and love. 🍰👪
 
Payesh is like the ultimate comfort food for me 🍴🤗, and I love how it brings people together - birthday parties, weddings, festivals... it's always a sweet treat! But what I really appreciate about Payesh is how simple yet satisfying it is 🙌, you just gotta get that creamy consistency right. And have you ever tried making it from scratch? It's like meditation, watching the rice grains wash and stir in those cardamom pods... so calming 😌. My mom's recipe is still a secret, but I'm hoping to master it soon! 🤞 If you're feeling adventurous, give it a shot - trust me, patience is key 👍
 
omg i just tried making payesh for the first time last wknd & it was SOOO good!!! my mum taught me how to make it & its literally been a game changer 🤩 she said its all about balancing the heat tho, dont wanna burn the milk lol what r ur fave sweet treats to indulge in this january 🍰😋
 
I'm so over these lengthy posts 🙄. Can't people just keep it concise? I mean, I get that Payesh is a nice dessert and all, but do we really need 200 words about its history and your mom's recipe? It feels like a lot of unnecessary fluff. And can you please proofread for grammar errors? Like, "Payehs" instead of "Payesh" 😂. I swear, if I see one more post with more typos than a Twitter thread on politics 🤦‍♂️. Anyway, yeah, Payesh is nice, try it out or whatever...
 
i'm so down for payesh season 🍰👌 i mean, who doesn't love a good creamy rice pudding? it's like, the ultimate comfort food, right? and i love how it's still relevant today, even after all these years. my mom used to make it for me all the time when i was little, and now that i'm older, i appreciate it even more for its simplicity. sometimes desserts can be so over-the-top with all the frills and whatnot, but payesh is just this understated gem that's like, really rewarding in a quiet way 😊
 
I'm loving all the nostalgia around Payesh right now 🍰👵 I mean, who doesn't have a special dessert that takes them back to their childhood or family traditions? It's amazing how something as simple as rice pudding can evoke such strong emotions and connections 🤗. For me, it's all about appreciating the little things in life, like the process of making Payesh itself – it's almost therapeutic 🌿. And I love that you're sharing your mom's recipe, it's like a way to pass down family traditions and keep them alive for future generations 💕. Can't wait to try this non-dairy version and see how it turns out! 😊
 
I'm so obsessed with desserts right now lol 🍰🤤 but what I find really cool about Payesh is that it's not just a sweet treat, it's also super culturally significant 🤓. Like, did you know it's been around for almost 2,000 years? That's crazy! And the fact that it symbolizes prosperity and good fortune in South Asian cultures is mind-blowing 💫.

I love how the recipe is kinda therapeutic too 😌. I mean, watching the rice grains being washed under running water sounds like a meditation session to me 🙏. And the part where you balance heat to achieve the perfect creamy consistency is like a science experiment 🧬. But what's really amazing is that making Payesh can be an emotional connection to your family's traditions 💕.

If I'm being real though, the recipe does seem kinda intimidating at first 🤔. Like, how do you even get the milk and rice to combine in such a way? 🤷‍♀️ But honestly, it's worth the effort 💪. And if you're not lactose intolerant like me, the non-dairy option sounds super appealing 😋.

I'm definitely gonna have to try making Payesh myself now 🍰👩‍🍳. Who knows, maybe I'll even discover my own secret ingredient 🔥!
 
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