ICE Arrested Father Who Cared for His Ill Son — Then Denied His Request to Attend Son’s Funeral

A Palestinian refugee was denied permission to attend his son's funeral despite being the sole caregiver for him.

Maher Tarabishi, a 45-year-old Palestinian refugee from Jordan, was arrested by US Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) in October. He had been held at a detention center in Texas for three months, during which time his 30-year-old son Wael's health had deteriorated rapidly due to the rare metabolic disease Pompe.

In late December, Wael was hospitalized twice and underwent surgery eight days before he passed away on January 23rd. The family said that Tarabishi had been the primary caregiver for Wael and had kept him alive with around-the-clock care.

ICE officials told Elhorr, his lawyer, that they had received no request from anyone to attend Wael's funeral, despite preliminary discussion about a temporary release on compassionate grounds. On January 23rd, Tarabishi was in disbelief when he learned of Wael's death over the phone with his daughter-in-law.

Elhorr immediately filed a motion to reopen Tarabishi's case with the Board of Immigration Appeals, which had previously denied him asylum due to alleged ties to a terrorist organization that has since been deemed an exaggeration by the family.
 
[img: A photo of a person looking shocked and disappointed with a "NOOOO!" speech bubble above their head ]😱🤦‍♂️ICE is like "Sorry buddy, but you can't attend your own son's funeral" 👻💔 [giphy: a cat walking away from a grave]
 
🤕 This is just so wrong! Like I get it, ICE has rules and stuff, but not being allowed to attend your own son's funeral? That's just inhumane. The dude was literally taking care of his kid 24/7, pouring all his energy into keeping him alive, and this is how the system repays him? It's like they forgot that he's human too, you know?

I mean, what even is compassionate release if you're not allowed to be there for your own child in a moment like that? And to make matters worse, I heard Wael was literally on his deathbed when his dad found out. The dude was basically left alone to grieve without anyone from the family or ICE showing up to offer support. It's just devastating.

We need to talk about this ASAP and figure out how we can change things like this so it never happens again. I mean, what kind of system allows for this? We can't just sit back and let people be treated like that.
 
🤕 this is so heartbreaking I cant even imagine what maher must be going through right now losing his son and having to go through this detention nightmare too... 🚔 how can ICE do this to someone who's sole caregiver for his child? its like theyre trying to punish him for being a good parent 🤷‍♂️
 
😱 This is just so heartbreaking. I mean, can you even imagine losing your child and then being told no, you can't attend their funeral because of some bureaucratic mess? Maher Tarabishi was literally the only one taking care of his son, day in and out. He's not even supposed to be here in the first place if he doesn't have a lawyer or something to fight for him. And now his son is gone and this guy can't even say goodbye properly. It's just so cruel 🤯. I feel like we're living in a country where people are more worried about following rules than doing what's right.
 
Ugh 🤕, this is just heartbreaking 🙏. I mean, can you even imagine having to call your partner and tell them their loved one has passed away while they're still in detention? 😱 Maher Tarabishi's son Wael was literally counting on him for every waking moment, and ICE just denies him the chance to say goodbye? It's like they're trying to separate a parent from their child just because of some bureaucratic headache 📝. And what's up with the whole "no request" thing? Does anyone know how often you get to attend a funeral in detention? 🤷‍♂️ I guess it's just another example of how broken the system is for people like Maher and his family 💔.
 
🤔 ICE gotta do better than this... I mean, come on! The guy's kid just dies and he's too late? That's not compassion, that's neglect 🚫. Wael would be still alive if his dad was free to care for him 24/7... no one needs a paper or a stamp to show humanity 💔. And what's with this "received no request" nonsense? Either they knew about the funeral plans and chose to ignore 'em, or they're just making excuses 🙄. Maher deserves better than that from the system he's relying on for help...
 
😕 This is just heartbreaking... I mean, can you even imagine being in Maher Tarabishi's shoes? His son Wael was literally counting on him to keep his health stable and now he's gone? 😭 The fact that ICE didn't allow him to attend his own son's funeral is just appalling. I'm not surprised the family is fighting back with a motion to reopen the case, though - this is some serious immigration injustice right here! 🤯 How can we call ourselves a civilized society when we're treating someone like this? 🤔
 
can you believe this?? 🤯 maher tarabishi was basically living w/ his son 24/7 cuz he had no other caregivers & now his boy's passed away & maher gets denied permission to attend his own son's funeral 😢 it's just so heartbreaking. i mean, what kinda system is this where a person can just be held back from saying goodbye to their loved one because of some technicality? 🤔
 
can't believe what's happening here 🤯 ICE is literally trying to punish ppl for showing love and compassion to their own family members! Maher Tarabishi was supposed to care for his sick son, not leave him unattended for one day so he can go to a funeral... it's all about the laws now, not humanity.
 
I'm still trying to process this news 🤯... it just feels so inhumane to deny someone the chance to say goodbye to their loved one, especially when they've been taking care of them full-time! Maher Tarabishi was basically Wael's entire world, and now he gets to attend his funeral? No way, that's just not right 😭. I'm totally with Elhorr on this one - my heart goes out to the family 🤕... how can ICE justify taking away someone's chance at closure like this? It's all just so messed up 💔
 
🤯 This is just heartbreaking. I mean, who gets denied permission to attend their own son's funeral? It's not like they're asking for some kind of special treatment, it's just basic human decency. Maher Tarabishi had been taking care of his son 24/7, and now that the kid's gone, he deserves some compassion. ICE is supposed to be about protecting people, but in this case, they're literally tearing a family apart. 🤕 What kind of system lets this happen? It's like they're more concerned with following rules than doing what's right. Wael's dad was in such bad health himself, and now he gets to spend the last few days before his own death in detention. The thought of it is just... *sigh*. This country needs a lot of soul-searching, that's for sure. 🤝
 
😱 This is just heartbreaking... I mean, can you imagine being in Maher Tarabishi's shoes? His son Wael was literally counting on him for survival and now he's gone? 🤕 The fact that ICE denied him permission to attend his own son's funeral is just devastating. It's like they didn't even care about the human cost of their decision... 😔

I mean, think about it, Tarabishi had been caring for Wael around the clock, and the son was literally dying from a rare disease that requires constant attention. And what did ICE do? They held him in detention while his son's health was deteriorating... 🤯 It's just not right.

And to make matters worse, they're saying that no one asked them to attend Wael's funeral, but I'm pretty sure that's a pretty big oversight on their part. I mean, who wouldn't want to attend their own son's funeral after all they've been through? 🤔

It's just so frustrating that the system is broken and people like Tarabishi are being treated this way... 💔
 
😞 just heard about this guy Maher Tarabishi being detained in Texas while his son Wael was literally dying... can you even imagine? 🤯 The dude's been taking care of Wael 24/7 and now he gets arrested and denied permission to attend his own son's funeral? 🚫 That's some crazy stuff. ICE needs to rethink their priorities, fam. Like, I get that they gotta enforce the laws, but this is just heartbreaking. What kinda system lets a guy like Tarabishi be stuck in limbo while his family is grieving? 🤔
 
omg dont even get me started on this 🤯 Maher Tarabishi is literally the best dad ever & he didnt deserve 2 b treated like dis.ICE should be ashamed of themselves 4 denying him permission 2 attend his son's funeral after all he did 4 Wael.its not like hes a criminal or sumthin,hes just a refugee tryna make a life 4 himself & his fam.ICE is 2 harsh, they need 2 rethink their policies & consider the human cost of deporting ppl like Maher. 🤕
 
OMG 💔 is this even real life?!?! I mean, I'm all about being a good sport and giving people chances 2nd time around but ICE gotta be kiddin' me! Maher Tarabishi's son Wael just passed away & he's stuck behind bars 🚫 meanwhile his family's dyin' 2gether & can't even attend the funeral...like, what r we even doin' here?! 🤷‍♂️ICE got some 'splainin' 2 do! Maher was literally Wael's only caregiver after his health took a turn for the worse...it's just not fair 😭.
 
man this is so sad 🤕... i mean what kinda system lets you do that? Maher Tarabishi was literally all his son had and it's just cruel to deny him permission to be there at the funeral. like, what even is compassionate release if you're not gonna follow through on it when it counts? 🙄 ICE needs a serious revamp. we gotta make sure our laws prioritize people over paperwork. Wael's family didn't ask for much, just some basic humanity. this is just another example of how broken the system can be 😔
 
OMG, this is just insane 🤯! Denying someone permission to attend their own son's funeral because they're in the middle of deportation proceedings? That's just not right 😡. I mean, come on, Maher Tarabishi was literally keeping his son alive with around-the-clock care, and what does he get in return? Being locked up for months while his kid is dying 🤕. And now his son's gone, and he's still stuck in limbo? It's just cruel 😩. The US immigration system needs a serious overhaul, imo 👊
 
OMG u guys this is soooo sad!!! 😭 Maher Tarabishi was literally the only one taking care of his son Wael while he was in a super rare metabolic disease Pompe... can u even imagine?! His health just kept declining and he had to be in the hospital TWICE before finally passing away 🤕

and then 2 days after that ICE comes along and denies him permission to attend his own son's funeral?! 😡 I mean I get it, immigration laws are complicated but this is just cruel... Wael needed his dad there to say goodbye... it's not just about being a caregiver, it's about showing love and respect in the last moments of someone's life ❤️

I'm all for tough laws and stuff but come on... 🤷‍♀️ let's be real here... this is just wrong 😔
 
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