the thing is
... we're all guilty of being a little messy ourselves at some point, right? like, who hasn't gone through their closet and found 12 pairs of shoes they never wear anymore?
but the difference between us and people with hoarding disorder is that they can't just let go. it's not about being lazy or irresponsible, it's a mental health issue
... and we need to be more understanding and less judgmental about it. instead of shaming people for their stuff, we should be helping them find resources and support 