Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

Burying our beloved pets is an age-old tradition that holds significance in human culture. It's more than just a way to dispose of a deceased animal - it's about providing comfort, closure, and a sense of connection to the pet we've lost.

Historically, burying animals was seen as a taboo practice, with many societies opting for disposal methods like burial in rivers or using the bodies for meat and skin. However, as our relationships with animals evolved, so did our attitudes towards their afterlife. By the early 20th century, pets had become integral members of the family, with graves bearing family surnames and loving epitaphs written by "Mummy and Daddy".

The modern pet cemetery movement reflects this shift in societal values. In recent years, numerous cities around the world have established public pet cemeteries to honor the beloved animals that bring joy and companionship into our lives.

One notable example is Barcelona's planned public pet cemetery, set to open next year. The city's decision to invest in a dedicated space for pet burials comes as no surprise, given its high proportion of pet owners (50% of families own a pet). For Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology who has spent years researching pet cemeteries, this news is "a shock" that highlights the growing demand for such services.

Tourigny's research into historic pet cemeteries reveals a fascinating story about how humans have struggled to find ways to express their grief when an animal passes away. The lack of acceptable outlets for human emotion led many individuals to hide or deny their feelings, rather than openly acknowledging the strength and significance of their bond with their pets.

Fast-forwarding to modern times, it's clear that attitudes towards human-animal relationships have changed significantly. Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offer counseling services for bereaved pet owners, reassuring them that there is no shame in grieving.

The establishment of public pet cemeteries like Barcelona's represents a significant shift towards acceptance and normalization. By providing a dedicated space for pets to be buried with dignity and respect, we acknowledge the importance of these relationships in our lives.

Of course, not all pet owners will have access to such services. The estimated cost of €200 ($217) per service may pose an obstacle for some families. Nevertheless, online forums, digital pet cemeteries, and creative ways to commemorate a pet's life offer alternative avenues for expression and grief.

Ultimately, burying our beloved pets is about more than just physical disposal - it's about honoring the emotional connection we share with these incredible animals. As society becomes increasingly accepting of human-animal relationships, it's heartening to see us follow traditional funeral practices that recognize the depth of our feelings for these loyal companions.
 
🙏 I totally get why Barcelona is doing this its like they know how much pets are part of the family not just financially but emotionally too 🐾💕 50% of families having a pet shows how strong those bonds really are and its nice to see cities recognizing that 💖
 
I'm thinking that its kinda cool how people r starting to treat their pets like they're part of the family 🤩 I mean, I remember when I was a kid, we didn't have all these fancy pet cemeteries and stuff... we just buried them in our backyard or something 🌳 But now, it's like a big thing! And I'm not surprised, people love their pets so much 🐾💕 It's not just about the animals, its about us as humans, and how we feel when they die 😔.
 
🐾💔 I'm so moved by this news about Barcelona's public pet cemetery 📍! It's amazing how far we've come in accepting and honoring the bond between humans and animals. I mean, think about it - pets have been part of our families for centuries, and now we're creating special spaces to lay them to rest with dignity 💯. Of course, cost is a concern, but there are so many other ways to celebrate their lives, like online forums or digital cemeteries 🌐. What I love about this trend is that it shows we're finally giving pets the respect and emotional validation they deserve ❤️. It's not just about burying an animal; it's about celebrating the memories and feelings we shared with them 📚. Can't wait to visit Barcelona's pet cemetery when it opens next year! 😊
 
🙏 I'm so down for a public pet cemetery in Barcelona 🌴! Like, 50% of families owning a pet is insane 💁‍♀️! It's about time we acknowledge the importance of those furry friends in our lives 💕. I mean, have you seen the epitaphs on some of those old pet graves? "Mummy and Daddy" 😂 - that's just too cute! 🐾💗

I love how charities are now offering counseling services for pet owners who are grieving 🤗. It's all about acceptance and normalization, right? 🙌 And I'm all for it! 💁‍♀️ But, €200 is a bit steep for some families 🤑... maybe they can offer more affordable options or online alternatives? 📊 Just saying 😊.

It's wild to think that burying pets was once seen as taboo 🤯. Now we're like, "Hey, this is totally normal and okay" 👍! The pet cemetery movement is all about giving our beloved animals the respect they deserve 💀. And I'm here for it 🙌. Let's keep spreading love and kindness to those furry friends 💕!
 
idk why ppl need a whole public cemetery 4 their pets 🤔... seems like just an excuse 4 ppl 2 splurge on expensive services. €200? thats ridiculous! & what about all the people who cant afford it? 🤑 they gotta resort 2 just lettin' their pet die somewhere in a park or backyard, which is basically the same thing lol. but i guess its good that there r charities like rainbow bridge offerin help & support 4 ppl grievein... still, cant help but think its all just a bit of a marketing ploy 🤑
 
omg can u believe its like 50% of families in barcelona have a pet? thats so much! i think its amazing how people are finally accepting of burying their pets, its like they're part of the family too 🐾💕 but €200 is kinda steep lol maybe online options will help make it more affordable
 
🌼 I think it's really sweet how pet cemeteries are becoming a thing! It's like we're finally acknowledging that pets are part of the family too 🐾💕. I mean, who needs a fancy house when you can have a beautiful garden where your furry friend can rest in peace? 😊 The fact that charities are offering counseling services for pet owners is also super cool. It shows that society is slowly becoming more accepting and compassionate towards our grief. 💖 Of course, the cost thing is a bummer 🤑, but I guess online options and digital cemeteries will help fill the gap. Overall, it's just a nice way to celebrate the special bond we share with our pets ❤️
 
I mean, who wouldn't want a fancy public cemetery in Barcelona where they can pay €200 to say goodbye to their furry friend? It's not like we have better things to spend our money on 🤑. I'm sure it'll be super convenient for all those pet owners with disposable income 😂. On a more serious note, it's nice that the city is acknowledging the emotional connection people have with their pets. I mean, who wouldn't want to grieve in peace without judgment? It's about time we started recognizing the importance of our relationships with animals 🐾💕.
 
🐾💔 I think its really cool that cities like Barcelona are setting up public pet cemeteries now 🌳. Like, pets r not just pets anymore, they're family members 💕. Its awesome that people are finally recognizing the emotional impact of losing a furry friend 😢. And yeah, €200 might seem like a lot 4 some families, but hey, its about providing dignity & respect 4 our beloved animals 🐾💀. I mean, think bout all the creative ways ppl r findin 2 honor their pets online or through digital cemeteries 🤔. Its all about acceptance & normalization, which is a big step forward 💖
 
🐾💔 so this is like, really cool i think 🤔. i made a little diagram to show how pet cemeteries are becoming more mainstream 📈

burying pets
→ taboo practice
→ modern attitudes change
→ public pet cemeteries emerge

like, we used to just throw them away or use them for food and stuff 🤢 but now we see them as part of the family 👪. it's about showing respect and closure when they pass away 💕.

the blue cross and rainbow bridge are doing great work too 🌈 helping people grieve and not feel ashamed 😔.

but yeah, €200 is like a lot for some ppl 💸 maybe we can find alternative ways to celebrate their life online or something 🤖
 
🐾💕 its great to see cities like barcelona investing in public pet cemeteries. i think its a beautiful way to honor our furry friends and help ppl process their grief. its not just about burying them, its about showing respect and closure. the fact that 50% of families own a pet in barcelona is crazy! 🤯 online forums and digital cemeteries are cool too, but theres somethin special about physical space where we can go to say goodbye.
 
I'm all for this 🐾💕, I think its so beautiful how pet cemeteries are popping up everywhere! It shows just how much we love and care about our furry friends 🤗. And you're right, not everyone can afford the €200 fee 💸, but there are always other ways to remember and honor your pets, like making a charity donation or creating a memory garden 🌼. I've lost my own pet recently and I know how hard it is to say goodbye 😢, but having a place to go to pay respects and feel less alone would have been amazing 🙏
 
I THINK IT'S AMAZING THAT BARCELONA IS GETTING A PUBLIC PET CEMETERY!!! 50% OF FAMILIES OWN A PET THERE ALREADY, SO IT MAKES SENSE THEY'D WANT TO HONOR THEM WITH A DEDICATED SPACE. IT'S NOT JUST ABOUT DISPOSAL, IT'S ABOUT SHOWING LOVE AND RESPECT FOR THE ANIMALS WE'VE LOST 🐶❤️

I MEAN, WHO WOULDN'T WANT TO SEE THEIR PUPPY OR KITTY BURIED IN A BEAUTIFUL CEMETERY WITH OTHER FURRY FRIENDS?! IT'S LIKE WE'RE FINALLY GETTING THE Recognition FOR HOW MUCH THESE ANIMALS MEAN TO US 🙌

OF COURSE, €200 IS A LOT OF MONEY, BUT I GUESS ONLINE OPTIONS AND DIGITAL CEMETERIES CAN BE CHEAPER... BUT STILL, IT'S WORTH IT FOR THOSE WHO CAN'T AFFORD IT 🤑
 
I'm so over this whole pet cemetery trend 🙄. Like, what's next? Creating a public graveyard just for humans who can't deal with their own mortality? It's all about us pets being "integral members of the family" and getting special treatment now. Newsflash: it's always been that way, folks! We've just become more aware (and attached) to our furry overlords over time. And let's not forget the financial aspect - €200 a pop? That's outrageous! 🤑 Who can afford that when they're struggling to put food on their own table? It's all about us humans prioritizing our pets' feelings over our own, and I'm just not buying it 😒.
 
I think its really cool how things have changed when it comes to pets 🐶💕. I mean, back in the day, they just kind of got disposed of like that 😔. But now we realize that they're a part of our family and we want to honor them after they pass away 💗. Its great that cities like Barcelona are investing in public pet cemeteries 🏞️. I can imagine its not easy for people who have lost a pet to deal with their emotions 😔. But having a place where they can go to say goodbye and remember their beloved pet is just amazing ❤️.

I also think its awesome that charities like the Blue Cross are offering counseling services for pet owners 🤝. It shows that we're becoming more aware of how our feelings affect each other and ourselves 💖. And yeah, the cost might be a bit prohibitive for some families 🤑. But I think thats why online forums and digital pet cemeteries are so great 👀. They offer an alternative way to express themselves and grieve in a way that feels more accessible 🌈.

I guess what Im trying to say is, it just goes to show how far we've come when it comes to accepting our pets as part of the family 🤝. And I think thats something to be celebrated 🎉!
 
🐾💔 The thought of leaving a furry friend behind is super tough... but I think it's awesome that we're getting more open about it. I mean, who wouldn't want a proper goodbye, with some flowers and all? 🌼 It's crazy how our attitudes towards pets have changed over time - they used to just get thrown away like trash! 😱 But now, we see them as part of the family, and that means giving them the respect they deserve when they're gone. 🙏
 
You know what they say, dogs are man's best friend... till you gotta bury 'em 🐶💀. But seriously, I think it's awesome that cities like Barcelona are setting up public pet cemeteries. It just shows how much we love our furry friends (and some not-so-furry ones too 🙃). The fact that charities offer counseling services to help people grieve is a big deal too - it's all about accepting that losing an animal is super tough and there's no shame in feeling sad.

And yeah, I can see why some pet owners might be hesitant to pay €200 for a service, but hey, if it means your pup gets a nice sendoff with dignity... it's worth it 🐾💕. Digital pet cemeteries are also a great idea - maybe one day we'll have virtual headstones that let us upload our favorite memories and share them with the world 📸. All in all, I think burying pets is a beautiful way to honor those who bring so much joy into our lives 💗.
 
I'm not sure I get the hype around public pet cemeteries 🤔. Don't get me wrong, I'm all about respecting the bond between humans and animals, but is it really necessary to create a whole new industry around burying pets? The cost of €200 per service is pretty steep for most people 🤑. What's next, pet funeral homes with fancy urns and whatnot? 😂
 
🐾💔 I think its really beautiful how society has come to accept and celebrate our love for pets in death as much as in life. Like, who wouldn't want a special place to lay their beloved pup or kitty after they pass on? Its not just about saying goodbye, but also about acknowledging the incredible impact these animals have on our lives 🙏.

I mean, think about it - we're living in a world where there are public pet cemeteries and services that cater specifically to the emotional needs of pet owners. That's huge 💥. And I love how charities like the Blue Cross are providing counseling services for people who are struggling with grief and loss. It just shows that we're finally becoming more comfortable with expressing our emotions and acknowledging the depth of our feelings.

Of course, there are still obstacles to overcome, like the cost of these services 🤑. But I think its worth it to have a special way to honor our pets' memory and celebrate their life. And let's not forget about all the creative ways people are finding to commemorate their pets' existence - from digital cemeteries to artistic tributes 💕.

Anyway, I just think its really cool how our attitudes towards human-animal relationships have shifted over time 🤓. We're becoming more accepting and compassionate, and that's something to be celebrated ❤️.
 
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