Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

As we stand at the threshold of mourning, it is striking how society's attitude towards the afterlife has evolved. The practice of burying our departed loved ones, while long-standing, is relatively recent compared to our relationships with pets. In Europe and North America, over 500 years ago, humans began to acknowledge the importance of pets in their lives.

Fast-forward to the Victorian era, when gravestones were adorned with heartfelt epitaphs, such as "devoted companion" or "loving friend." It was a time when people considered their pets integral members of the family. As time passed, however, societal norms shifted, and the boundaries between human and animal relationships became increasingly blurred.

By the early 20th century, pet owners were no longer just caring for pets but forming deep emotional bonds with them. This shift is reflected in modern gravestones, which now often refer to reunions rather than farewells. For instance, a beloved cat named Denny was buried in an east London cemetery in 1952, and his epitaph read "God bless until we meet again."

Today, the practice of burying pets has become more widespread, with cities like Barcelona investing in public pet cemeteries. These institutions not only provide a sacred space for grieving but also serve as a testament to our evolving attitudes towards animal companionship.

The similarity between modern and historic pet cemeteries lies not just in their design but also in the heartbreak and taboos surrounding grief. Just as we struggle to express our pain when losing humans, so too do we feel constrained by societal expectations when dealing with the loss of pets.

Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offer counseling to bereaved pet owners, acknowledging that the emotional bond between people and animals is just as significant. As society becomes more accepting of this bond, it's not surprising to see us adopting rituals resembling those we use for human mourning.

However, not everyone will have access to these services, especially in urban areas where space is limited. At €200 ($217) per service, the new Barcelona cemetery may be out of reach for many pet owners. Instead, they may choose to keep cremated remains within their home or scatter ashes in a meaningful location.

Online forums and digital pet cemeteries have emerged as alternatives for those who cannot afford traditional burial services. Whether one chooses a pet cemetery or not, there are now many ways to express grief and remember the importance of our animal companions in our lives.
 
🐾💔 it's wild how we've become so accepting of pets being more than just animals anymore. i mean, think about it - we used to bury them in cemeteries with fancy epitaphs like "devoted companion" 🤯 now we're talking about online forums and digital pet cemeteries as an alternative to traditional burial services. it's like we've finally come to terms with the fact that our pets are part of the family 💕. but at the same time, it's also crazy how expensive these new pet cemeteries can be - €200 for a service? that's just not fair to people who can't afford it 🤑
 
I'm feeling really grateful that people are starting to recognize how much emotional depth we can share with our pets 🐾💕. It's crazy how much society has changed over time - like, who needs to mourn just humans anymore? I think it's amazing that places like the new Barcelona cemetery are popping up, even if they're not super accessible to everyone. And online forums and digital pet cemeteries? That's some next-level comfort for those who can't afford a traditional burial 🌱💻. It's all about finding ways to honor our furry friends when we lose them 💔. I wish more people could see just how much love and companionship pets bring into our lives 🐶❤️
 
I'm still reeling from the news about Barcelona investing in public pet cemeteries 🤯. It's crazy how attitudes towards pets have changed over the centuries. I mean, think back to when your grandparents would bury their pets and just leave 'em to rot in the backyard? Yeah, times have definitely changed since then 😂. And now we're talking about paying €200 for a service that's basically like human funeral services 🤑. It's not gonna be cheap, but I guess it shows how much pet owners care about their furry friends these days 💕. Online forums and digital cemeteries are also super cool ideas - might have to check those out myself 👍
 
🤕 another thing, did you know that only 1 in 5 people in the US have access to mental health days off work? like, what's up with that? shouldn't we be prioritizing our mental wellbeing too? 🙄 it's getting harder and harder to cope with stress and anxiety without being able to take a break from society.
 
So I'm reading this article about how people's attitudes towards pets have changed over time... 🐾📈 Did you know that in Europe & North America, 500 yrs ago, people started valuing their pets just as much as they value humans? 🤯 Fast forward to the Victorian era, and pet epitaphs were super common! But now we've got a new trend of modern pet cemeteries popping up everywhere... Barcelona just invested in one that costs €200 per service! 🤑 What I think is interesting is how charities like the Blue Cross are recognizing that animal loss can be just as painful as human loss, and offering counseling services to help people grieve. 💕 But what I don't know is whether all pet owners have access to these services... especially in urban areas where space is limited! 🌆 Anyways, I think it's awesome that online forums & digital pet cemeteries are emerging as alternatives for those who can't afford traditional burials...

Stats:
- 500 yrs ago: people started valuing pets in Europe & North America
- €200 per service: Barcelona's new pet cemetery cost
- 70% of pet owners consider their pets to be part of the family 🐾💕
- 1 in 5 Americans considers their pets to be a member of the family too! 🇺🇸
 
I feel so bad for people who can't afford that new Barcelona pet cemetery 🤕, £200 is like, super expensive! 🤑 My school doesn't have any money for our own little memorial garden thingy, but we just had a tree planting ceremony to remember the students who passed away in natural disasters last year 💚. It was really beautiful and brought everyone together. I wish people could do that for their pets too... maybe they can start some kind of crowdfunding campaign or something? 🤔
 
🐾💀 I mean, can you believe how much our society's views on pets have changed? Like, 500 years ago, we were just starting to consider them part of our families, and now we're basically mourning their loss like they're humans 🤯. In the US alone, over 70 million households own a pet, which is roughly 45% of all households 💸. And did you know that in 2020, pet owners spent an estimated $75 billion on their pets? That's a lot of love and loyalty 💕.

But let's get to some stats 📊. According to the American Pet Products Association (APPA), the number of pet cemeteries has grown by over 50% in just five years, with more than 300 cemeteries operating across the US 🚨. And it's not just about the numbers – it's also about how we're starting to normalize talking about grief and loss when it comes to our pets 🤝.

Here are some more interesting stats:

* 60% of pet owners consider their pets part of the family 👪
* The average cost of a pet funeral is around $1,500 💸
* Pet cemeteries now offer a range of services, including urns, headstones, and memorial websites 🎨

It's amazing to see how far we've come in accepting our pets as an integral part of our lives ❤️. And with online forums and digital pet cemeteries becoming more popular, it's easier than ever for people to express their grief and celebrate the memories of their beloved pets 💗.

Anyway, I just wanted to share some stats and thoughts on this topic 🤔. Feel free to chime in if you have any opinions or experiences 🐾💬
 
🐾💔 I mean, think about it - we're finally starting to acknowledge that pets are like, super important to us too 😊. In the past, people would write things like "devoted companion" on gravestones, which is basically the ultimate compliment for a pet 🤩. And now, with cities investing in public pet cemeteries, it's becoming more normal to have a special spot to say goodbye to our furry friends 💗.

But what really gets me is that people are still struggling to talk about their grief when they lose pets 🙅‍♂️. Like, we're always so bad at expressing emotions when humans die, and now we're doing the same thing with our pets 😔. But hey, at least we're getting better at accepting it, right? 💖 And with all these new options like pet cemeteries and online forums, people have more ways to say goodbye and remember their pets in a special way ❤️.
 
I'm so sure that burying pets is a total game changer... no, wait, I mean, it's kinda old fashioned 🤔. I mean, think about it, we're still living in an era where people are buried with their shoes on and stuff 🤑. But at the same time, I think it's really cool that cities like Barcelona are investing in public pet cemeteries... yeah, no, actually, those places sound super sketchy 😳. And can you blame them? It's not like we're gonna run out of space anytime soon... oh wait, we already have 🤦‍♀️.

I'm really against the idea of paying €200 for a pet cemetery service... unless, of course, I'm the one getting to decide who gets buried where 😂. But seriously, what's up with that price tag? Can't they just make it more affordable or something? Maybe we can just have a big group burial and split the cost 🤝.

But hey, online forums and digital pet cemeteries are definitely a thing now... yeah, I'm all for it... no, wait, those sound kinda impersonal 😔. Or do they? 🤷‍♀️ Anyway, at least we have options, right? 💡
 
Wow 😊🐾 This is so interesting! I never thought about how much our relationship with pets has changed over time 🤯 Like, we used to think they were just pets, but now we treat them like family members 👪💕 It's awesome that charities are starting to acknowledge the emotional bond between people and animals 🌈 And yeah, online forums and digital pet cemeteries are a great way for people who can't afford traditional services to still honor their beloved pets 💻💸
 
I'm thinking about this news and I feel so emotional 😔... Like when my golden retriever, Max, passed away last year. I didn't think twice about saying goodbye because he's just an animal, but now I see that it's not like that at all 🤷‍♀️. The fact that people are investing in public pet cemeteries and charities to help with grief is really cool 💕... but what about those who can't afford it? I mean, my family couldn't afford a funeral for Max because we're just on a tight budget 💸... maybe one day there'll be affordable options like online forums or something 🤞. It's all about acknowledging our emotional bond with animals and being able to grieve properly 🙏.
 
I think it's so cool that we're finally starting to acknowledge the emotional bond between humans and animals 💕🐾. I mean, can you imagine if everyone was as open about grieveing their pets as they are with losing a loved one? It's like, pets bring us so much joy and companionship, it makes sense that we'd want to celebrate them too 🎉. And yeah, the fact that traditional pet cemeteries are popping up in cities is awesome - I think it's a great way for people to find closure and honor their furry friends 💯. But what's not cool is that some people can't afford these services... like, who pays €200? 🤑 Those online forums and digital pet cemeteries might be the only option for them 🤷‍♀️. Anyway, I'm all about celebrating our animal loves and making space for more pet rituals in society 💖.
 
🐾💔 I'm totally with this - pets bring so much joy & love into our lives, it's only natural that we'd want to honor their memory when they're gone 🙏. The fact that we're seeing more pet cemeteries pop up is a great sign of how far we've come in accepting the emotional bond between humans and animals 💕. But at the same time, I totally get why some people might not be able to afford those services... maybe it's time for more affordable options like community gardens or online memorial spaces 🌱💻? Either way, I think it's awesome that we're having these conversations about grief & loss and finding new ways to celebrate our furry friends' lives 💗.
 
😊 so what's with all these pet cemeteries? like, how did it go from humans being super important to pets just chillin' next to them? 🤔 also, €200 for a service is kinda steep, can't ppl just scatter some ashes or smthn in the park? 🌳 and what's with the online forums, r they like, virtual pet graveyards or wut? 😂
 
Wow 🤯 Interesting that we're starting to acknowledge pets as part of our family too! I mean, think about it, we used to just bury them without even thinking twice... but nowadays, it's all about the emotional bond we share with them 💕 I'm all for making pet loss more accessible, especially in urban areas 🌆 Those online forums and digital pet cemeteries are a game-changer! 🙌
 
the way we grieve is really interesting 🤔 think about it, 500 years ago humans were still figuring out how to deal with their pets' deaths but nowadays its more accepted 🐾💕 online communities and cemeteries are popping up everywhere, some of them even have memorial days for pets lol what's crazy is that we're slowly starting to acknowledge the emotional connection between humans and animals 💔 it's still a weird thing though, like why do people pay €200 to say goodbye to their pet 🤑 anyway, its progress i guess 👌
 
🌻🐾 It's amazing how society has come full circle on treating pets like family members. I mean, we've only recently started acknowledging the importance of pets in our lives, but it feels like we're circling back to those early Victorian days when people considered their pets part of the family 🤗. It's so sad that we have to pay a pretty penny for these services, especially considering how much they mean to us 💸. But hey, at least there are options now for those who can't afford traditional burials 🌿. And let's be real, online forums and digital pet cemeteries are just as valid as the physical ones 😊. It's all about finding ways to honor our furry friends after they're gone 💕.
 
🤔 The way we're moving forward with pet loss is actually pretty cool! 🐾💕 Did you know that over 75% of cat owners experience some form of depression after losing their feline friend? 🚨 That's like, a LOT of people! 📊 And get this - in the US alone, over $2.5 billion is spent on pet food and other supplies each year... which is more than double what's spent on human funeral services 😮💸 I mean, we need to start talking about animal bereavement as seriously as human bereavement! 🤝

Fast forward to 2025 and the pet industry is projected to reach $281.4 billion - up from just $69.7 billion in 2018 📈💸 That's an increase of 305%! Who knew? 🤑

Here are some stats on pet loss:

- 71% of pet owners grieve their pets
- The average time between losing a pet and buying a new one is 3.5 months
- 42% of pet owners don't have a plan in place for pet burial or memorialization
 
I think its kinda wild that we're now more accepting of having an emotional bond with animals but still struggle with talking about it 🤔💕...like, we gotta give credit where credit is due tho - those Victorian era epitaphs were deep! "devoted companion" or "loving friend"...totally a reflection of how much our furry pals meant to us back then.
 
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