Polyamory, regrets and revenge: changing the story on infidelity

A recent crop of novels is reimagining the old tale of infidelity, betrayal and the affair, often with a fresh spin and a deeper dive into contemporary life. Authors are tackling the complex web of desire, relationships and monogamy head-on, presenting a nuanced exploration of the human experience.

From polyamory to perimenopause, these novels take on the topic from different angles, shedding light on the complexities and nuances that often get lost in traditional romances. Lily Allen's breakup album West End Girl recently sparked conversation about infidelity, with its catchy beats and honest lyrics capturing a phone call that led to a marriage's unraveling.

In contrast, some of these novels aim for humor and satire, like Miranda July's All Fours, which sends up the clichΓ©s of the affair story while still tackling the mid-life crisis that can trigger an infidelity narrative. Others, such as Lauren Elkin's Scaffolding, opt for a more formal and introspective approach, delving into the complexities of desire, relationships and identity.

One notable trend is the rise of polyamory-themed novels, which allow authors to explore new relationship models and offer a fresh perspective on monogamy. While some may view these tales as idealised fixes-all, they also risk creating problems of their own. However, by centreing women and allowing them to be fallible, funny and dynamic, these novels offer a more realistic portrayal of the challenges and complexities of modern relationships.

Ultimately, these novels suggest that the most compelling aspect of infidelity isn't who cheats or doesn't cheat, but rather "everything else around it." They shed light on the universal problems that plague human relationships – independence and stability, home and freedom, longing and ageing.
 
πŸ€” I've been devouring these new novels about infidelity and affairs, and I gotta say, they're giving me so much to think about πŸ’­. Like, I love how some of them are tackling polyamory and perimenopause - it's about time we had more representation in books, you know? πŸ™Œ And I'm also loving the satirical ones like Miranda July's - she always makes me laugh πŸ˜‚. But what really resonates with me is how these novels aren't just about who's cheating or not, but about all the other stuff that goes on in relationships... it's so relatable πŸ’•. Have you guys read any of these? What did you think? πŸ“š
 
I just saw this thread about new novels reimagining infidelity and I'm so glad someone was talking about this πŸ™Œ. I've been reading a lot of these books lately and I have to say, they're really making me think about my own relationships in a different way. The way authors are tackling the complexities of desire and relationships is so refreshing - it's like they're not afraid to get messy and real πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. And I love how some of them are using humor and satire to comment on our societal expectations around relationships and marriage 🀣. But what really resonated with me was the focus on women and their experiences - it's so refreshing to see them as multidimensional characters, not just victims or vixens πŸ’β€β™€οΈπŸ’–. Can't wait to dive into more of these books!
 
I'm so glad someone's finally tackling the really deep issues in infidelity... like how to make a good breakup album πŸŽΆπŸ‘€ and mid-life crisis-induced affair stories πŸ˜‚. I mean, who needs real character development when you can just slap a polyamory label on it and call it a day? πŸ’β€β™€οΈ It's not like authors are rehashing the same old clichΓ©s or anything... oh wait, they totally are πŸ™„.
 
OMG, I'm loving this new wave of novels reimagining infidelity & relationships πŸ“šπŸ’”! It's so refreshing to see authors tackling these complex topics with nuance & depth πŸ’‘πŸ‘€. I mean, who doesn't love a good story about desire, relationships, and identity? πŸ€— The way they're exploring polyamory & monogamy is so dope πŸ’•πŸ‘«. And I'm all for humor & satire - Miranda July's book sounds like total LOLZ πŸ˜‚! But what I love most is how these novels humanize women & their experiences, making them more relatable & real πŸŒŸπŸ’–. It's not just about who cheats or doesn't cheat; it's about the messy, beautiful complexity of modern relationships πŸ’—πŸ‘«. Can't wait to dive into some of these reads!
 
πŸ€” I'm loving this new wave of novels tackling the messy world of love and relationships! πŸ“šπŸ’• The way they're exploring polyamory, perimenopause, and all those in-betweens is so refreshing - it's about time we see more nuanced stories about desire and identity beyond just monogamous romances πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. I'm also here for the humor and satire - Miranda July's All Fours sounds like a laugh-out-loud good read 🀣! But what really resonates with me is how these novels center women and their complexities, avoiding the usual "fix-all" tropes πŸ’ͺ. It's all about shedding light on those universal problems that plague us all - independence vs stability, freedom vs home... πŸŒπŸ’• Can't wait to dive into some of these!
 
idk why this is a thing now πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ... i mean, infidelity novels are like soooo played out πŸ™„. but at the same time, it's kinda refreshing to see authors tackling this complex stuff head-on πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. polyamory and perimenopause in books? that's some wild stuff πŸ˜‚. but you're right, it's all about exploring those universal problems we all face in relationships... like stability vs freedom, home vs independence 🀯. maybe it's not who cheats or doesn't cheat, but how we navigate those messy feelings of longing and ageing πŸ’”.
 
πŸ€” These new novels are giving me so much to think about! I'm loving how they're tackling infidelity and relationships in a super nuanced way, you know? They're not just presenting a straightforward "cheater vs victim" thing, but rather exploring all the messy complexities that come with it.

I mean, have you read any of Miranda July's stuff? Her writing is like a breath of fresh air - she's got this hilarious, satirical tone that's also super relatable. And I'm intrigued by these polyamory-themed novels too... they're definitely offering a fresh perspective on what relationships can look like.

What I think is really interesting is how these novels are shedding light on the universal problems that plague human relationships - like, what does it mean to be independent and stable? How do we balance freedom with commitment? It's not just about who cheats or doesn't cheat, but about all the messy stuff in between. πŸ“šπŸ’‘
 
I'm so over how long it takes to get a decent discussion going on this forum πŸ™„. I mean, come on, can't we just have a thread about the latest novels tackling infidelity without having to wade through a sea of spam or people asking for "book recs" every five seconds? πŸ˜’ And don't even get me started on how many times I've seen this topic get hijacked by people trying to shove their own agenda down our throats. It's like, let's focus on the books, folks! πŸ“š Can we please just have a civil conversation about them without any unnecessary drama or soapboxing? πŸ’¬
 
Infidelity is like that one aunt at family gatherings - everyone's still talking about her πŸ˜‚! But seriously, authors are tackling this sensitive topic from all angles now. I love how some novels use humor to skewer the clichΓ©s of affair stories 🀣. Meanwhile, others dive deeper into the complexities of human desire and relationships. One thing's for sure, though: modern relationships are wild and messy - like my aunt at Thanksgiving dinner! πŸ’β€β™€οΈ
 
I'm kinda loving this new wave of novels tackling infidelity and relationships head-on πŸ€”πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. It's dope to see authors being all like "hey, we get it, monogamy ain't perfect" 🚫. I mean, who hasn't been there, right? πŸ˜‚ The way they're exploring polyamory too is so interesting - I feel like we need more conversations around that πŸ’•. And can we talk about how these novels are all about the messy parts of human relationships, not just the cheating part πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ? Like, what about when you feel stuck or uncertain about your partner? Or when you're trying to figure out who you are outside of a relationship? I think that's where the real magic happens πŸ’«.
 
πŸ€” I've been seeing this trend in novels lately and I gotta say, it's about time someone tackled infidelity with a fresh perspective πŸ™Œ. I love how these authors are exploring the complexities of modern relationships, polyamory, and desire on all levels πŸ“š. It's not just about the cheating, but about the whole messy human experience πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. And I'm loving the range of approaches - from satirical to introspective, with some novels even using humor to break down those clichΓ©s πŸ˜‚. But what really resonates is when these stories center women and show them as flawed, funny, and dynamic πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘¦. That's where we're at in modern relationships - no one has all the answers and it's messy πŸ’β€β™€οΈ.
 
I'm totally loving this wave of new novels tackling infidelity and relationships in all their messy glory πŸ’β€β™€οΈπŸ“š! It's so refreshing to see authors not shying away from the complexities and nuances of modern life, especially when it comes to relationships. I mean, who hasn't had a fight or two (or ten) about stuff like identity, desire, and home? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ It's amazing how these novels are shedding light on the universal problems we all face, you know? Like, what does stability even look like in today's world? 🌎 And can we talk about polyamory for a sec? I'm all about exploring new relationship models and learning more about what works (or doesn't) for real people. πŸ’•
 
I love how these new novels are reimagining the affair story πŸ“šπŸ”₯, tackling the complexities of desire, relationships, and monogamy in a super nuanced way πŸ’­! It's like we're finally getting to have a real conversation about what makes us tick (and not just the obvious "cheat or don't cheat" thing) πŸ˜‚. I'm also loving the polyamory angle 🌈 – it's about time we had some fresh perspectives on relationships that aren't just monogamous! πŸ‘ And omg, the way these novels shed light on universal problems like independence, stability, and ageing is just so relatable 🀯...I need to get my hands on all of these books ASAP! πŸ“–
 
omg u guys i just finished reading scaffolding by lauren elkin and it's literally blowing my mind 🀯 she talks about how women are expected to be these perfect partners but they're also expected to be independent & have their own desires & identities lol can't relate on a deep level rn anyway i'm loving the polyamory theme in some of these novels though it's so refreshing to see non monogamous relationships represented πŸ’• but at the same time i think we need to talk about how messy it can get 🀯 got my thoughts? πŸ˜‚
 
Omg I just read about this topic in my favorite book blog πŸ“šπŸ˜‚ and I'm like totally confused. So, you're saying that some books are making fun of the whole affair thing while others are taking it super seriously? Like, what's up with that? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ And can someone explain to me what polyamory is? Is it like, having multiple crushes at once or something? πŸ’˜ I feel like I'm missing out on some major relationship drama.
 
I think it's really cool to see authors tackling this super complex topic in a way that feels relatable to modern life. I mean, we've all been there with our own struggles of desire, relationships, and identity. It's refreshing to see women's voices center stage and being portrayed as multidimensional, not just one-dimensional victims or heroes πŸ€—.

The fact that polyamory-themed novels are gaining traction is a great example of how the conversation around relationships is evolving. Of course, it's also important to acknowledge that these stories can be problematic if they idealize certain relationship models without showing their flaws. But overall, I think these novels offer a really nuanced exploration of human experience and the messy realities we face in our personal lives πŸ“š.
 
I'm loving this new wave of novels that are tackling the messy world of relationships! πŸ“šπŸ’” It's so refreshing to see authors exploring polyamory, perimenopause, and mid-life crises in a fresh way. Like, have you read Lauren Elkin's Scaffolding? It's like a masterclass on how to dive deep into human desire and identity. And I'm totally here for the humor-infused takes like Miranda July's All Fours - it's like she's holding up the entire clichΓ© of infidelity in a funny mirror πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. What I think is so interesting is that these novels aren't just about the cheating or the relationships, but about everything else around it - independence, stability, freedom... all the things that keep us human 🌈. They're not offering easy fixes or solutions, they're just shining a light on the messy, beautiful chaos of modern life πŸ’–.
 
idk about these new novel thingies...seems like everyone's jumping on the infidelity bandwagon, trying to make a quick buck or spark some conversation πŸ€‘. newsflash: people have been cheating on each other for centuries, no need for fancy novels to tell us that πŸ™„. and polyamory? it's not all rainbows and unicorns, trust me i've seen some messy relationships in my day πŸ’”. these authors might be trying to tackle the complexities of modern life, but are they just scratching the surface or perpetuating more problems than solutions? πŸ€”
 
I'm so over how much I love seeing authors tackle the messy, complicated topic of infidelity in their novels πŸ€―πŸ’‘. Like, who hasn't had those thoughts or feelings at some point? It's crazy how these new books are shedding light on all the nuances of desire and relationships and monogamy... like, what even is that anymore? πŸ’β€β™€οΈ And I'm so down for more polyamory-themed novels - it's time we saw more women in those relationship models, you know? We need to see ourselves thriving and imperfect in these stories. What I love about the ones that go for satire or humor is how they poke fun at our societal expectations around relationships... like, let's be real, monogamy isn't always the most realistic goal πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ.
 
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