Polyamory, regrets and revenge: changing the story on infidelity

Lily Allen's West End Girl album has taken the spotlight for its exploration of polyamory, regret, and revenge, mirroring themes that have captivated readers in recent years' novels tackling infidelity and relationship dynamics.

In fiction, authors are pushing boundaries with experimental narratives that subvert the traditional romance novel tropes. Andrew Miller's Booker-shortlisted The Land in Winter delves into rural England in 1962, capturing the era's tone and texture through two couples' storylines. In contrast, Miranda July's All Fours takes a more contemporary approach, focusing on an unnamed narrator navigating midlife crisis and an affair with a Hertz employee.

Sarah Manguso's Liars tells a stark, brutal tale of a disintegrating marriage triggered by infidelity, while Catherine Lacey's The Mรถbius Book explores the limits of language in fiction, presenting a postmodern narrative that flips between nonfiction and fiction. However, both Liars and The Mรถbius Book are criticized for being overly judgmental, failing to delve deeper into the complexities of conflict.

Lauren Elkin's Scaffolding stands out as a more nuanced exploration, tackling desire seriously while employing inventive structures that capture the universality of relationship problems. By weaving together two narratives with different timeframes and perspectives, Elkin humanizes her characters, presenting everyday struggles as inherent to life.

The resurgence of novels centered around infidelity can be attributed to evolving attitudes toward relationships, aging, and mortality. As millennials settle into marriage, their stories explore new models like polyamory, centering women's experiences and acknowledging the fallibility and humor that accompany them.

These works not only reflect societal changes but also tap into readers' voyeuristic interests in infidelity, encouraging a deeper exploration of longing, fear of death, and the complexities surrounding human connections. As one character notes, "The most interesting part of infidelity isn't will they or won't they; it's everything else around it."
 
๐Ÿค” I think what's fascinating about these novels is how they're challenging traditional notions of romance and relationships. The exploration of polyamory, for example, adds a fresh layer of complexity to the genre, highlighting the nuances of human desire and intimacy ๐ŸŒˆ. Meanwhile, authors like Lauren Elkin are expertly navigating themes of aging, mortality, and longing, which I believe resonate deeply with readers in this stage of life ๐Ÿ“š. The fact that these works are sparking conversations about infidelity, relationships, and human connection is a testament to the power of literature to reflect and shape our collective experiences ๐Ÿ’ฌ. Overall, I'm excited to see where this trend takes us โ€“ it's a thrilling time for fiction! ๐Ÿ“–
 
I think novels about infidelity are really bringing back some deep conversations we need to have ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ฌ. I mean, who doesn't want to dive into the messy world of relationships and explore all the grey areas in between? It's not just about the cheating part, but how it affects everyone involved - partners, friends, family... and even yourself. These authors are tackling some heavy stuff, like regret, revenge, and the complexities of human connection ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ‘ฅ. And I love how they're centering women's experiences and exploring new models like polyamory - it's about time we had more stories that reflect our changing attitudes towards relationships ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’•.
 
omg can u believe how relatable these novels r!!! like i'm all about polyamory rn & i love how authors are showin us that regret & revenge are just as important as the drama ๐Ÿคฏ lily allen's album was soooo good but i need more books like lauren elkin's scaffolding tho - her writin is so poetic & i love how she humanizes her characters ๐Ÿ’• and yeah i feel like our generation is gettin these complex relationship issues on a plate & it's about time authors started explorin them in depth ๐Ÿ’ฏ
 
๐Ÿค” just think about how messed up our idea of relationships is in this society ๐Ÿšฎ we're like, super invested in monogamy but also have zero problem with people cheating on each other... meanwhile, polyamory is just a normal thing for some folks now ๐Ÿ’– it's like, good for them? or is that still stigmatized? anyway, these authors are getting it right, exploring the gray areas and complexities of human connection ๐ŸŒˆ
 
I love how these authors are giving us something real, you know? Not just your typical happily-ever-after romance novels. They're exploring the messy stuff that makes relationships human. I mean, have you read Lauren Elkin's Scaffolding? It's like she's speaking straight to me ๐Ÿคฉ. The way she weaves those two narratives together is genius. And I love how they're all pushing boundaries with their experimental storytelling. It's not just about the plot; it's about how they make us feel, you know? Like, Catherine Lacey's The Mรถbius Book is like a puzzle that keeps you guessing, and Miranda July's All Fours is just so relatable. I think what I love most is that these authors are acknowledging that relationships are complicated and messy, but also beautiful in their own way ๐Ÿ’•.
 
๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’ก I'm so down for these authors pushing boundaries in novel land! The way they're tackling complex relationships and themes is honestly refreshing. I love how Lauren Elkin's Scaffolding doesn't shy away from exploring everyday struggles, making her characters feel so relatable. And can we talk about the resurgence of novels centered around infidelity? It's like our society is finally having a conversation about desire, aging, and mortality in a way that feels real and honest. ๐Ÿ˜Š I'm excited to dive into these books and see how they continue to explore the messy, beautiful world of human connections ๐Ÿ“–๐Ÿ’•
 
I love how authors are tackling the complexities of relationships in their stories ๐Ÿค—. I've been reading a lot of these novels with my book club and it's so interesting to see how they're exploring polyamory, regret, and revenge. It feels like we're living in a time where people are more open to non-traditional relationship models and that's reflected in the books.

I think what I love most about stories like Lauren Elkin's Scaffolding is how they humanize their characters ๐Ÿ“š. We all experience struggles with desire, fear of death, and uncertainty - it's nice to see these themes represented in fiction. And I agree, the infidelity aspect of the novels isn't just about "will they or won't they" ๐Ÿ˜‰, but about the complexities that come with human connections.

It's also interesting to see how these novels are reflecting societal changes ๐Ÿ“ˆ. As people age and settle into marriage, their stories are exploring new models like polyamory. It feels like we're entering a new era of relationships where people are more willing to explore non-traditional paths.

I wish more authors would delve deeper into the complexities of conflict ๐Ÿ˜”, but overall I think these novels are doing a great job of capturing the universality of relationship problems ๐ŸŒŽ.
 
๐Ÿคฏ I'm loving how these authors are pushing boundaries with their stories! The resurgence of novels centered around infidelity is like, totally a reflection of our changing attitudes towards relationships, aging, and mortality. And let's be real, who doesn't want to read about polyamory, midlife crises, and the complexities of human connections? ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’• I mean, I know some of these books might get criticized for being too judgmental, but come on, that's what makes them so interesting! ๐Ÿ˜‚ They're not afraid to tackle the messy stuff. And can we talk about how relatable it is to see everyday struggles explored in a literary way? It's like, yeah, I've been there too, and I need someone to tell me I'm not alone ๐Ÿค—. Overall, I'm super excited for this new wave of authors who are exploring the complexities of human relationships! ๐Ÿ’ฅ
 
๐Ÿค” I feel like we've been having this convo before but can't quite put my finger on it... this resurgence of novels centered around infidelity kinda reminds me of that Netflix series 'Euphoria' where they explored the messy, often toxic side of relationships ๐Ÿ“บ. Anyway, what's fascinating is how these authors are subverting traditional romance novel tropes and exploring more complex themes like polyamory & midlife crises ๐ŸŒˆ. I love how Lauren Elkin's Scaffolding tackles desire seriously while still being inventive with its structure - it feels super relatable to anyone who's ever struggled with relationships ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ. And can we talk about how these authors are humanizing their characters? It's like, we're not just watching a drama unfold, but experiencing the everyday struggles of real people ๐Ÿ’•.
 
I think what's really cool about these novels is how they're not just focused on the juicy stuff (infidelity), but also on the complexities of human relationships and emotions. Like, Lauren Elkin's Scaffolding doesn't just explore desire, but also the everyday struggles that come with it ๐Ÿคฏ. And I love how she weaves together two narratives with different timeframes and perspectives - it adds such depth to the characters and makes them feel more real. For me, what's most interesting is how these novels are reflecting our changing attitudes towards relationships, aging, and mortality... they're not just about the drama of infidelity, but about the messy, beautiful parts of human connection ๐Ÿ’•.
 
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