Seven out of 10 UK mothers feel overloaded, research reveals

UK mothers feel overwhelmed by responsibilities, research reveals.

A survey of over 800 mothers across Europe has found that seven out of ten UK mothers feel overloaded with childcare and household tasks. This is a higher proportion than the European average, with many feeling unable to cope with the demands of motherhood. In fact, almost half of UK mothers experience mental health issues such as anxiety or depression.

The research, conducted by Make Mothers Matter, also revealed that British mothers are still expected to do most of the household and childcare work alone. This can exacerbate feelings of isolation and stress. Furthermore, a significant proportion of UK mothers believe that motherhood has had a negative impact on their career, with one in three saying it has affected their work-life balance.

The report's findings have been met with criticism from experts who say that the lack of support for new mothers is having a devastating impact on mental health. Prof Alain Gregoire, a perinatal psychiatrist, said that many mothers are "suffering in silence" and that there needs to be more training for healthcare professionals to detect maternal mental health problems.

Easy access to talking therapies could provide an important lifeline for struggling mothers, but experts warn that there is still a stigma surrounding seeking help. Make Mothers Matter's findings highlight the need for policymakers and healthcare providers to take action to support new mothers and address the root causes of the problem.

The UK government has responded to the report, saying that it is committed to providing more support for new mothers. However, critics argue that this is not enough, and that more needs to be done to address the systemic issues that are driving mothers to feel overwhelmed and isolated.

As one charity chief executive put it, pregnancy, birth, and early parenthood are "periods of heightened vulnerability", but significant gaps remain in the care and services offered to women and new parents. Without better support, many mothers will continue to struggle with the pressures of motherhood, leading to devastating consequences for their mental health and well-being.
 
I'm really worried about these UK moms ๐Ÿค•... 7 out of 10 feel overwhelmed by childcare & household tasks? That's crazy! They're already shouldering way too much responsibility alone, and it's no wonder they're struggling with mental health issues like anxiety & depression ๐Ÿ˜”. The fact that almost half are experiencing this is just heartbreaking.

I think it's time for the gov to step up its game ๐Ÿš€... easy access to talking therapies would make a huge difference! But even if they do provide more support, we need to get rid of the stigma around seeking help ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ. Can't we just normalize going to therapy and asking for help when you need it? It's not like moms are being lazy or anything... they're just trying to balance work & family life ๐Ÿคฏ.

I'm all about empowering moms, but we can't do that if they're too exhausted to even take care of themselves ๐Ÿ’ช. We need systemic changes, not just Band-Aid solutions ๐Ÿค•. Maybe it's time for a more flexible work-life balance or some paid family leave... something, anything! ๐Ÿ‘ถ
 
The pressure on UK mums is just crazy! ๐Ÿคฏ I mean, it's like they're expected to be superheroes or something? ๐Ÿ˜‚ They're already juggling work, household chores, and taking care of the little ones, but now they're also dealing with mental health issues? That's a lot to handle. I'm not surprised that most of them are feeling overwhelmed and isolated. It's time for us to step up and support our mums instead of just expecting them to be okay. ๐Ÿ’• We need more affordable childcare options, flexible work arrangements, and access to good talking therapies. The UK government can start by providing more resources and services for new mothers, not just promising more (as they did in this report). Let's get real about the challenges mums face and work together to make things better for them. ๐Ÿ’ช
 
OMG u cant even imagine how hard its 2 b a mum n not get 2 cope lol ๐Ÿคฏ i mean yeah UK mums r 4real feelin overwhelmed ๐Ÿ˜ฉ its like they r expected 2 do it all alone & stil have time 4 ur own life but nope thats just not happenin ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ easy access 2 talking therapies would b a game changer 4 them but lol u can already tell its a stigma thing n not enough ppl will seek help ๐Ÿ˜”
 
๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿค• 71% of UK moms feel overwhelmed? That's insane! ๐Ÿ™„ They're already juggling a million things, now they gotta do most of the household work alone? It's like, why can't dads be more involved? ๐Ÿค” And what's up with this stigma around talking therapies? We need to get rid of that ASAP! ๐Ÿ’ฏ

Anyway, here are some stats for you:

* 50% of UK moms experience mental health issues
* 1 in 3 say momhood affected their work-life balance
* 71% feel overwhelmed with childcare and household tasks
* 45% of European mothers reported feeling isolated
* The top 5 countries where moms feel most supported are: Sweden, Norway, Denmark, Iceland & Canada ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ท๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡จ

We need to do better, fam! ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ๐Ÿ’ช
 
๐Ÿค• it's so crazy that moms in the UK are feeling like they can't even cope with taking care of themselves let alone their kids. I mean, come on, we need to start valuing mothers as individuals not just as caregivers. It's not okay that almost half of them are struggling with mental health issues and it's not like it's going to magically fix itself if the gov just throws some token support their way ๐Ÿ™„

We need systemic change here, like actual policies in place to support new moms and address the root causes of these problems. We can't just keep sweeping this under the rug and expecting everything to be okay. It's time for us to start taking care of our mothers, too ๐Ÿ’•
 
๐Ÿคฏ Can't believe they're still saying UK mums have it easy when it comes to childcare & household chores lol. I mean, I've got a little one at home and I'm literally drowning in laundry and cooking duties. And don't even get me started on the social isolation - my partner's always busy with work so I'm stuck doing everything myself. It's like no one expects mums to be superheroes or something ๐Ÿค. And mental health? Forget about it! I've seen friends struggle with anxiety & depression after having kids and there's just not enough support out there. We need more than just empty promises from the gov - we need real change ๐Ÿ’ช.
 
๐Ÿค• I feel so sorry for these mums, they're carrying way too much weight on their shoulders. It's like, we need to have a conversation about why we expect them to do everything alone - is it because we don't trust them or something? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ And yeah, easy access to talking therapies would be a lifesaver, but if people still feel ashamed about seeking help, that's just not fair. We need to create a culture where mums can open up without fear of judgment. And I'm all for the gov't saying it's committed to supporting new mums, but like, what specific actions are they gonna take? It can't just be a PR statement, we need actual change. ๐Ÿ’ช
 
๐Ÿค” I'm really concerned about these stats ๐Ÿ“Š. It's like, we've been conditioned to think that moms are superhumans who can handle everything on their own ๐Ÿ’ช, but the truth is, it's a lot of pressure ๐ŸŒŸ. I feel like if I'm being honest, sometimes I just wanna say "enough" and ask for help ๐Ÿค, but society makes me feel like I should be able to do it all without support ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ. We need to change that ๐Ÿ”„.
 
๐Ÿคฏ I think it's really concerning that 7 out of 10 UK moms are feeling overwhelmed with childcare and household tasks alone ๐Ÿค”. Like, shouldn't dad be helping more with stuff too? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ It's not just about the mothers, but also about how society is raising kids these days... we need to rethink this whole "traditional" family setup, you know? ๐Ÿ’ช And yeah, mental health issues are super common among new moms too - it's like they're expected to be perfect or something ๐Ÿ˜ฉ. We need more support and less stigma around talking therapies! ๐ŸŒŸ
 
I feel so bad for these UK mums ๐Ÿค•... it's like they're carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders. I mean, I remember when my mum used to take care of me and my siblings, and we'd all pitch in together as a team. Nowadays, it seems like everyone expects mothers to do everything alone. And the pressure is just too much! ๐Ÿ˜ฉ I know I'm not a mother myself, but even I can imagine how overwhelming it must be.

And what's with this stigma around seeking help? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ When I was in college, we had a therapist on campus who would meet with students one-on-one. It seemed like a no-brainer to me. But apparently, that's not the case for many new moms. We need more support systems in place, and we need them now! ๐Ÿ’ช
 
๐Ÿคฏ I mean, can you imagine having to do everything on your own after having a kid? It's like, we need to talk about why moms are still expected to be superheroes ๐Ÿฆธโ€โ™€๏ธ. Like, they're already sleep-deprived and stressed out, and then we expect them to cook dinner and clean the house too? ๐Ÿคช It's not fair, right? We need to support these women and make sure they have access to mental health services that can help them cope with all the pressure. And let's be real, having a baby is already tough enough without feeling like you're going to lose your job or your career because of it ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ. The UK government needs to step up their game and provide more support for new moms, not just empty promises ๐Ÿ˜”.
 
I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place... or should I say, between a messy nursery and a mountain of laundry . But seriously, 7 out of 10 UK moms feeling overwhelmed is just crazy! ๐Ÿคฏ I mean, who wouldn't want to have kids, right? But it seems like the system's all like "Hey, mom, you're on your own!" . Can we please get some extra hands (or a better work-life balance) over there? ๐Ÿค And btw, talking therapies should be like Netflix โ€“ easily accessible and with no judgmental comments about your binge-watching habits ๐Ÿ˜‰.
 
I mean I'm not surprised that UK mothers are feeling overwhelmed, it's like they're expected to be superheroes or something ๐Ÿ™„. I've seen these ads for online parenting courses and they just make me roll my eyes - "just 10 minutes a day" this and "simple recipes" that... no one is saying "just chill for 5 minutes and let someone else do the dishes, maybe?" ๐Ÿ˜‚.

And don't even get me started on how women are still expected to do all the household work alone. It's like we're living in the Dark Ages or something ๐Ÿ™ƒ. Can't we just have a basic level of support here? Like a universal childcare program or something? I mean, it's not that hard to see how this can lead to mental health issues...
 
I agree that UK mums are feeling super overwhelmed with all the responsibilities ๐Ÿ˜ฉ. I mean, it's no surprise that they're feeling like they can't cope - there's just so much expected of them from day one ๐Ÿคฏ. But what really gets me is that most of this work is still expected to be done alone ๐Ÿ’ช... like, where are the dads? Where are the partners? It's not just about the mums' mental health, it's about creating a more balanced society where everyone can share the load.

And don't even get me started on the stigma around talking therapies ๐Ÿค. Like, if I had to talk to someone about my own mental health struggles (which I have), I'd want some reassurance that I'm not judged or anything ๐Ÿ˜…. It's time for us to break down these barriers and support new mums in a way that's more than just band-aids ๐Ÿค•.

The government is saying they're committed to helping, but it feels like that's just lip service ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ. We need systemic changes, not just some token gestures.
 
I don't think more support from the government is the answer ๐Ÿค”, I mean, it's already there and we're still seeing these numbers skyrocket. The problem isn't the lack of resources, it's that everyone expects mothers to do everything themselves and then wonder why they're overwhelmed ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ. We need to rethink our societal norms around motherhood and what it means to be a good parent, not just for the moms, but for the entire family. Maybe we should be encouraging more shared parenting responsibilities and community support systems ๐Ÿค, that way everyone's not stuck carrying the weight of childcare and household work alone ๐Ÿ˜“.
 
I feel bad for all these mums out there ๐Ÿค•. It's like they're carrying the whole world on their shoulders. And it's not just about the childcare and household work โ€“ it's the emotional labor too. I mean, can you imagine having to deal with everything from feeding to bathing to soothing tantrums without any help? It's exhausting just thinking about it ๐Ÿ˜ด.

And what really gets me is that these women are expected to do all this alone ๐Ÿค. Like, where's the support system? Where are the networks of people who can lend a hand or just listen? It's like they're expected to be superheroes with no cape ๐Ÿ’ช.

We need to get real about this โ€“ having more talking therapies and support systems in place is not enough. We need systemic changes that address these deep-seated issues ๐Ÿ”„. It's time for us to recognize that motherhood is not just a personal choice, but also a societal responsibility ๐ŸŒŸ.
 
๐Ÿ˜ฉ I feel so bad for all these mums out there. They're already struggling to cope with everything, and it's just not fair that they're expected to do most of the household and childcare work alone. ๐Ÿค It's like society is putting too much pressure on them. I think we need to start having more conversations about this and how we can actually support them better. We should be helping them get access to talking therapies and stuff, not just saying that the gov't is committed to providing more support (when it feels like they're not doing enough already ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ). It's like, women are still expected to be superheroes 24/7 and it's just not okay. We need to start valuing their time and well-being more. ๐Ÿ’ช
 
๐Ÿคฏ 70% of UK moms feel like they're drowning in childcare & household tasks ๐Ÿšฝ๐Ÿ’” - that's way higher than Europe average! ๐ŸŒŽ The report also shows that almost half of UK moms experience mental health issues... Anxiety, depression, it's a real thing for many ๐Ÿ˜ข. We need to break the stigma around seeking help and provide more support for new parents ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•. Easy access to talking therapies could be a lifesaver ๐Ÿค. But let's look at the stats: 1 in 3 moms say momhood has affected their career ๐Ÿ“Š - that's not just about work-life balance, it's about financial stability & independence ๐Ÿ’ธ. We need more than just empty promises from policymakers... we need systemic change! ๐Ÿ’ช
 
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