Tenant moves into new home, their "warning" note over parking goes viral

Tenant's Viral "Warning" Note Over Parking Sparks Debate on Etiquette, Neighborhood Frustrations Multiply

A handwritten note tacked to a lamppost in a residential neighborhood has ignited a heated discussion on the internet, with many sharing similar tales of frustration over assigned parking spots. The anonymous poster, u/bigbIackjack, requested that others refrain from parking in their designated spot (#344) and offered a tongue-in-cheek remark, "Just stop parking in their spot, lol."

The post has garnered significant attention on Reddit's r/mildlyinfuriating forum, garnering over 6,100 upvotes and sparking a wave of responses from people who have faced similar issues. Many commenters expressed support for the note-writer, sharing stories of towing companies that would help them resolve disputes or leaving laminated notes to inform drivers.

"I lived in an apartment complex like that and would call the tow company posted all the time," one viewer noted. "When the complex stopped allowing residents to call, I found a local tow company that was more than happy to help. In fact, they would even leave a laminated note on the parking spot to tell the driver who has their car. I must have made them thousands over the years."

The viral post highlights an increasingly common issue in residential communities: disputes over assigned or paid car spots, particularly in shared-lot or multi-unit housing. The tone of the note – firm but not aggressive – resonated with many viewers, who echoed frustrations with neighbors or visitors disregarding marked or paid parking areas.

Some commenters took a more lighthearted approach, pointing out that the post was "nicer" than some who didn't bother to leave warning notes. Others expressed empathy for those who have faced similar issues, sharing stories of towing fees and the stress that comes with it.

As Newsweek reached out to u/bigbIackjack for further information, it's clear that this viral note has struck a chord among internet users – sparking a conversation about parking etiquette and neighborhood frustrations.
 
Ugh, I love how some ppl have zero impulse control... 🤦‍♀️ I mean, who writes a note on the lamppost in all caps? Like, calm down, big blackjack 😂 And can we talk about the whole "nicer" comment tho? Is that just code for "I wish I could've written that note but I'm too lazy"? 🙄 Anyway, I feel u though... parking spots are a real thing and people should respect them. But maybe instead of writing a note, they could just pull into the neighbor's spot next time they can't find theirs? 🤔 Just saying
 
The sheer audacity of u/bigblackjack's tongue-in-cheek warning note is both refreshing and relatable in its frustration 🙄. I mean, who hasn't had to deal with the stress of towing fees or having their spot invaded by an unsuspecting driver? The fact that this anonymous poster managed to spark such a lively discussion on r/mildlyinfuriating is a testament to the power of social media in bringing people together over shared experiences 😊.

It's also interesting to note how this viral post highlights the complexities of parking etiquette in residential communities. On one hand, we have the "bigblackjack" who refuses to back down and assert their claim, while on the other, we have drivers who are either oblivious or willfully disregarding the rules 🚗.

In any case, I think it's high time we had a more nuanced conversation about parking etiquette, one that acknowledges both the need for order and respect for fellow residents' property 🤝. After all, as someone once said, "A good neighbor is like a good friend – you don't have to say much, but when you do, people listen" 👍
 
Omg i can so relate!!! i had a similar issue last year when my friend parked her car in our spot & we had to call the tow truck lol the note sounds pretty reasonable to me - like u just want people to respect ur space 🤷‍♀️💯 and stop making u lose money on towing fees 🚗😩
 
🙄 I mean, can you blame the guy? People are always parking in spots they don't own like it's no big deal 🚗😒. I've had friends who get all upset when someone parks in their assigned spot and then proceed to call the management or tow company. It's just common courtesy, ya know? A quick glance at the sign and a polite "excuse me" would go a long way... but nope, that's just too much to ask 🤷‍♂️.

And can we talk about how ridiculous it is that someone has to resort to leaving a note on a lamppost like they're warning the world of an impending crime? I mean, if you don't know where your spot is, maybe you should get a map or something 🗺️. Anyway, at least this guy is getting some attention and sparking a conversation about parking etiquette... more power to that 🤓
 
I feel so much for people stuck in these situations 🤦‍♂️. Parking can be such a hassle, especially when you're trying to just get home from work or grocery shopping. And it's even worse when it's not just about convenience, but also about respect for your neighbors and their property. Those parking spots can be super limited in these residential areas, so it's only fair that people know where they are supposed to park.

I love how u/bigbIackjack's note was firm but not mean-spirited 💡. It's definitely a good reminder to all of us to respect the rules and signs in place. I'm also glad that some commenters were able to share their own experiences and offer support to those who are struggling with this issue 🤝. Maybe we can even start a conversation about how to improve parking situations in our neighborhoods? 🌆
 
🤷‍♀️ I'm low-key impressed by that anonymous note. Like, the guy just takes matters into his own hands and tries to solve a community problem. And it's not like he's being super harsh or aggressive – just straightforward. It's kinda refreshing to see someone taking responsibility for setting boundaries in a shared space. 🚗💪 At the same time, I get where some people are coming from – assigned parking spots can be so frustrating when neighbors/visitors don't respect them. Maybe the key is finding that sweet spot between being firm and friendly? 😊
 
omg I feel you guys, I had a similar situation in my apartment complex where some dude was always trying to squeeze into the last spot lol, i had to leave a note on his windshield saying "hey buddy, that's not yours" and guess what? he freaked out and called me but thankfully our complex has a super chill management so we just talked it out 🙄. I love how this anonymous poster is bringing awareness to assigned parking spots tho, it's like a community wide reminder to respect each other's property 😂
 
omg thats so relatable 🤣 i used to live in a building with assigned spots too and oh man it was like a whole game of cat and mouse trying to find a spot that wasn't taken... i feel u, whoever wrote that note is like the ultimate hero lol 💪 but at the same time its also kinda sad that people are so unaware of where they're parking and how it affects others 🤷‍♀️ like can't we all just try to be a little more considerate with our spot-hogging ways? 🙏
 
😐 people these days gotta be so considerate... or else they get some passive-aggressive note 🤷‍♂️ idk how many times i've been to a spot that's clearly marked 'do not park' and still seen some fool squeezing in 😒 towing companies r the real MVPs tho, always looking out for those who got their car towed 🚗💸
 
omg can you believe people have to resort to leaving notes like "just stop parking in their spot lol"😂 i mean i get it, assigned parking can be super annoying but can't we all just chill? like i had a neighbor who parked in my spot 5 times and i was all calm about it... until he did it for the 6th time. then i wrote him a note saying "seriously dude?" 🤣 anyway, i think the person who left that viral post is kinda genius - instead of calling the cops or anything dramatic, they just wrote a funny note to get their point across. and honestly, it's not like they're asking for much... just don't park in my spot! 🚗💪
 
OMG, I had no idea people were even paying money to park in specific spots 🤯 like, what's the point of that?! 🤑 And isn't it just gonna get towed anyway? 😂 I mean, I've seen those towing trucks cruising around my neighborhood and they can literally come at any time. I wonder if u/bigbIackjack got their spot back or was it just a waste of paper 📝 lol and what's with all these laminated notes?! Do people really need to be reminded who owns the spot? 🤷‍♀️
 
omg, like i totally feel you guys!!! 🙄 i used to live in an apartment complex with assigned parking spots too and it was literally a nightmare when people would park in them and then try to drive away without even looking! u/bigbIackjack's note is so on point, lol. i mean, who parks in someone else's spot just because? 🤔 the part about towing companies leaving laminated notes is genius tho, i never thought of that but it makes total sense.

anyway, i think this whole thing highlights how some people just don't care about their neighbors or the rules. like, if you can't even be bothered to park in your own spot, why should others have to deal with it? 🤷‍♀️ and yeah, some of the comments are super supportive but others are all "omg poor u" 🙄 let's just say i've been there too.

i also think this is a great example of how community can come together to solve problems. like, instead of getting all riled up, people should be sharing tips and tricks for dealing with parking headaches lol. so kudos to u/bigbIackjack for speaking truth to power (or in this case, parking power 💪).
 
omg i feel like this guy completely gets why he wrote that note 🤷‍♂️ his tone is def not aggressive, just straight up warning people who dont wanna listen to common courtesy lol its wild how many ppl share their own struggles with dealing w/ parking disputes & towing fees. idk what's more annoying, the ppl who park in spots they'rent supposed to or the ones who ignore notes left behind 🚗😡 anyway, kudos to bigbIackjack for speaking up & encouraging others to do the same 👏 maybe it'll inspire a change in how we handle these kinds of issues in neighborhoods 💡
 
omg i feel you so many ppl r complaining bout neighbors & visitors parked in their spot its like come on be more considerate 🤦‍♀️ dont make us deal w/ the stress of towing fees every time someone disregards our spot lol what would u do if u had to leave a note like that 📝 i think it's pretty cool that this guy just stood up 4 himself & others w/o being too aggressive btw can we pls get more community policing or something? 😊
 
I'm so done with people parking in other ppl's spots 🙄 like what even is wrong with you guys?! I remember when I was in college, we had these designated parking spots for different dorms and it was just common sense to follow the signs... oh wait, never mind, that was back in 2018 😂. Seriously though, it's frustrating when people don't respect other ppl's property and have to deal with towed cars or fines. I feel bad for u/bigbIackjack, whoever they are, for having to put up a note like that... but at the same time, can we all just follow the rules already?! 🤦‍♀️
 
omg i feel u 🤯 i've had my fair share of issues with neighbors parking in my spot too lol like how can ppl even not read the signs 🙄 anyway i think its kinda cool that u/bigbIackjack just took matters into their own hands and put up a note like who cares about some arbitrary parking spot rules 🤑 it shows ppl are getting more frustrated with all this stuff going on in our communities 👎
 
parking spots are literally everywhere nowadays 🤯 and i'm so over people just ignoring the signs lol. like, if you're gonna pay for a spot, own up to it & don't park in someone else's 😒. but at the same time, who hasn't had that one neighbor who thinks they can do whatever they want on their property? 🤷‍♀️ i mean, i've lived in apartments with assigned parking spots and it's always a nightmare when people don't follow the rules. towing companies are like superheroes saving the day 💪. but seriously, if someone puts up a note like that, it's not asking for much – just common courtesy 🤝.
 
the dude who wrote that note is my hero 🤣 i mean, can you blame him? i've been in similar situations where some idiot parks in my spot and then freaks out when i get mad at them. the whole thing is just so frustrating 😡. but i think u/bigbIackjack handled it pretty well - firm but not aggressive, which is exactly what you need to say to those kinds of people. it's like they're not even listening 🙄. and yeah, towing companies can be a lifesaver when you're dealing with these kinds of issues. but honestly, shouldn't there just be signs or somethin' that says "park here" or "don't park here"? why do we need some dude writing a note to tell us what's up? 🤷‍♂️ it's just basic common sense, right?
 
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