The cost of being the "exceptional" disabled person

The price of being a standout among the disabled is steep, as proven by Tim Burton's classic 1990 film "Edward Scissorhands." The movie tells the story of Edward, a gentle and kind-hearted outsider who possesses scissors for hands. Despite his unique appearance, Edward becomes an integral part of the community when he moves in with the Boggs family, where he falls in love with Kim.

However, this acceptance comes with a catch - Edward's exceptionalism makes him an object of fascination and exploitation. The neighbors, including Joyce and Esmeralda, treat him as a curiosity, gawking at his disability rather than seeing beyond it. When Edward attempts to navigate the complexities of relationships, he is met with condescending remarks and unwanted advances.

The film critiques the notion that being different makes someone exceptional. This idea can lead to exclusion and marginalization, as those who don't fit societal norms are seen as threats or relics. The power dynamics between abled and disabled individuals are starkly illustrated in the Boggs family's interactions with Edward. They use his disability to their advantage, exploiting him for his unique skills without truly understanding or respecting his boundaries.

Moreover, the film highlights the lack of consent in relationships involving disabled characters. When Joyce makes unwanted advances towards Edward, the audience is left wondering why he hasn't rejected her outright. This perpetuates a culture where disabled individuals are expected to be grateful for attention and affection from abled people, rather than being treated as equals.

The film's portrayal of disability raises more questions than it answers. What does it mean to be exceptional? Is it a positive or negative trait? How do we balance acceptance with respect and understanding? The answer lies not in romanticizing or fetishizing disability but in recognizing the complexities and nuances involved.

As the film concludes, Edward is forced back into isolation, his isolation a poignant reminder that even those who are accepted may still be seen as outsiders. As we reflect on "Edward Scissorhands," it becomes clear that being different doesn't make someone exceptional - it makes them human.
 
πŸ€” I mean, I get why they're gonna say Tim Burton's a genius and all that, but let's be real, Edward's whole existence is basically just an excuse for the Boggses to have some drama in their lives 🎭. Like, yeah, he's got scissors for hands, but does anyone ever really talk about his feelings or what he wants? It's always like, "Oh, poor Edward, he's so misunderstood." No, he's got agency too, you know? πŸ’β€β™€οΈ And can we please stop fetishizing disability and just start seeing people as individuals with their own thoughts and stuff? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ The film's trying to make some real points about acceptance vs. respect, but it's all kinda...surface level, you feel me? 🌊
 
I think it's so true what this article is sayin' about Tim Burton's classic film... πŸ€” the way Edward gets treated by his new friends and family, it's like they're more interested in gawkin at his scissorhands than actually gettin to know him as a person. It's like, yeah, he's got this cool skill that can do some amazin' things, but who is he really? What are his interests, his hobbies, his feelings?

And don't even get me started on how the article talks about consent in relationships... 😩 it's like, what would've happened if Edward had just said no to Joyce's advances instead of puttin that on a pedestal for her? It's all about respect and boundaries, you know? And I think that's somethin we should be talkin' more about.
 
I totally feel for edward in this movie 🀝... i mean, who wouldn't want to be part of a community and have people like you but at the same time its so sad how he gets treated like a freak. and u know what really gets me is when kim falls in love with him and then she just ignores his feelings when he needs her most πŸ˜” its not that hard to put urself in his shoes and try 2 understand his perspective.

i think the movie does highlight some dark issues but i also think it shows how acceptance can be both a blessing and a curse. we gotta find that balance between understanding and respecting peoples differences with being all like "omg look at me im so different" 🀯... its not about being exceptional, its just about being human.

and one thing thats always stuck w/ me is the power dynamic in the boggs household 🀝 edward has these skills that are super valuable to them and they exploit him for it but they dont even know how 2 treat him like a person. its all like "oh look at his scissorhands" vs actually seeing what he has 2 offer.
 
Wow 🀯 I just rewatched this movie and it's so interesting how it critiques the idea of disability as something to be celebrated or exploited for entertainment value πŸ’₯ The way Edward is treated by the community is super sad and it highlights how far we still have to go in terms of acceptance and understanding 🀝 The film raises some really important questions about power dynamics and consent, especially when it comes to relationships between abled and disabled people πŸ’”
 
I gotta say, I'm so over the whole "being different is special" thing πŸ™„. I mean, Edward's uniqueness is actually a total double-edged sword πŸ—‘οΈ. On one hand, it's cool that he's got scissorhands and can, like, trim your hair or something 🎨. But on the other hand, people are always gawking at him like he's some kinda freak show attraction 🀑. And don't even get me started on how the Boggs family uses his disability for their own gain πŸ’Έ. It's like, hello, consent is key, guys! πŸ‘Š Edward doesn't just magically become okay with being objectified and exploited because he's "special". Newsflash: being different isn't special, it's just...different 😐. And honestly, I think the film's trying to say something deep about how we should treat people with disabilities, but sometimes it feels like it's just saying "Hey, be nice to edgy outsiders!" πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Like, sure, let's all try to be more inclusive and understanding, but can we please stop fetishizing disability? πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ
 
I just got back from the most amazing road trip with my mates πŸš—πŸ˜Ž and I swear, have you ever tried a good ol' fashioned American diner breakfast? Like, pancakes, waffles, eggs, bacon... the works! 🍳πŸ₯“ And then I started thinking about how much we take our physical abilities for granted. Like, most of us can just walk into a store or grab something from the fridge without breaking a sweat πŸ’ͺ🏽. But what about those who need a bit more consideration? Accessibility is so important, you know? 🀝 It's not just about ramps and elevators, it's about understanding that everyone has different needs πŸ’‘.

And don't even get me started on social media πŸ“±. I was scrolling through my feed the other day and saw this amazing post about a person with a disability who's also an incredible artist 🎨. But then I realized how often we use art as a way to 'fix' or 'cure' people with disabilities. Like, let's just appreciate them for who they are, flaws and all 😊.

Anyway, back to Edward Scissorhands... I think the film does a great job of exploring these themes πŸ€”. But what about the importance of consent in relationships? It's like, we're always talking about how important it is to respect people's boundaries, but when it comes down to it, do we really listen? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
πŸ€” I mean, can you imagine living with scissors for hands? It's like, super unique right? But seriously, I think the film does a good job of showing how people can be fascinated by something that might seem weird or different at first. However, it also highlights how that fascination can turn into exploitation or even hurtful comments.

I feel like we need to find a better balance between being accepting and respecting each other's boundaries. It's not about ignoring what makes someone different, but more about understanding where they're coming from. I mean, who hasn't felt like an outsider at some point in their life? πŸ€— What's important is that we treat everyone with kindness and respect, regardless of whether they have a disability or something else that makes them stand out.

And yeah, the way Edward is treated by Joyce is pretty concerning. It's like, okay, I get it, you're interested, but do you really need to touch him without asking first? 😬 The film raises some tough questions about consent and acceptance, and I think we should keep having those conversations so we can become a more inclusive society. πŸ’–
 
Man πŸ€” the way society treats people with disabilities is wild... like they're stuck in this perpetual limbo where they're not fully accepted but also not fully understood πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. It's like, we see them as outliers, but what does that even mean? Are they really 'exceptional' or are they just... existing? πŸ™ƒ

I think the problem lies in our tendency to focus on the quirks and differences rather than the humanity. We treat them like objects of fascination rather than people with feelings and needs πŸ‘€. And don't even get me started on the lack of consent in relationships – that's just unacceptable πŸ˜•.

But at the same time, I think it's also important to recognize that disability is a natural part of human diversity 🌈. We shouldn't be ashamed or afraid of our differences, but rather learn to appreciate and celebrate them πŸ’–. It's all about finding that balance between acceptance and respect, you know? 🀝
 
I just binged this old Tim Burton flick and I gotta say... Edward's story is sooo real 🀯 It's like, people still stare at us differently because of our differences. Like, hello! We're not that weird, we're just... different πŸ”₯ And it's crazy how people try to use our talents for their own gain without even asking if we're okay with it. I mean, consent is key, you know? πŸ™

And can we talk about Edward's love story for a sec? It's like, Kim loves him for who he is, but the rest of the world doesn't get that. They just see his hands and their brains go blank πŸ˜‚ It's so frustrating.

The thing that really got me was when they forced Edward back into isolation at the end. Like, no, we don't need to hide our differences! We should be celebrated for who we are πŸ’– So yeah, let's take a page out of Tim Burton's book and learn to accept each other's weirdness 🌈
 
I'm still thinking about this film and how it relates to society πŸ€”. I mean, we've come so far in accepting people with disabilities, but there's still so much work to be done πŸ’ͺ. The way the Boggs family treats Edward is just wrong, you know? It's like they're seeing him as a freak or something instead of really getting to know him πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. And don't even get me started on the power dynamics - it's like they're exploiting his uniqueness for their own gain πŸ’Έ. I think what bothers me most is how often we put disabled people in these situations where they're expected to be grateful for attention, but not really treated as equals πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ. It's just not right. Anyway, I love how the film raises more questions than it answers - it's like, yeah, being different doesn't make someone exceptional, it just makes them human πŸ’–.
 
πŸ€”πŸ’­πŸŽ₯ I think the movie is kinda deep man, it's like πŸŒˆπŸ‘€ everyone sees Edward as a freak but really he's just tryna live his best life, you know? πŸ’– But at the same time, we gotta call out how ppl exploit him for his skills without even askin if he's cool with it πŸ˜’πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. It's like, consent is key, right? 🀝 And what's up with Joyce makin unwanted moves on Edward? That's just weird, innit? πŸ˜³πŸ‘€ Anywayz, the movie makes us think about how we treat ppl who are different and whether it's more about acceptance or respect πŸ’‘.
 
The portrayal of disability in "Edward Scissorhands" is indeed thought-provoking πŸ€”. I think the film effectively highlights the complexities surrounding exceptionalism and acceptance. The way the neighbors exploit Edward's uniqueness without truly understanding or respecting his boundaries is disturbingly relatable 😟. It's a stark reminder that even when we claim to accept someone, there can be a power imbalance that needs to be addressed. The lack of consent in relationships involving disabled characters is particularly problematic πŸ’”. As for what it means to be exceptional, I think the film leaves us with more questions than answers πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. Perhaps the answer lies in recognizing disability as a natural part of human diversity, rather than something to be fetishized or romanticized 🌈. Anyway, Edward's fate serves as a poignant reminder that being different doesn't make someone exceptional, it just makes them human πŸ’•.
 
Ugh I'm so tired of movies like this! πŸ™„ they always play with the lines of disability and it's just not fair. The idea that people will just swoon over you because you're different is literally gross. It's like we need to move beyond this romanticized notion of being a "unique snowflake" and actually understand what it means to live as someone with a disability. πŸ€•

And don't even get me started on the power dynamics between abled and disabled people. It's like, we're not objects or entertainment for your enjoyment, you know? We're human beings with our own agency and boundaries. πŸ’β€β™€οΈ

But at the same time, I do love that Tim Burton is speaking to these issues in his film. It's a reminder that our society still has a long way to go when it comes to acceptance and understanding of disabilities. πŸ™
 
πŸ€” I think this movie is like when your friends try to take a selfie with you and they're all like "oh look at the disabled person in the background, aren't they so inspirational?" No, they're not. They're just people. πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ Like, don't get me wrong, it's nice that Edward gets to live with the Boggs family and stuff, but it's also super messed up how they use him for their own gain. It's like, hello, have you seen the way Kim looks at him? That's some creepy stuff right there 😳. And don't even get me started on Joyce, ugh. Anyway, I think the movie is saying that being different doesn't make someone special, it just makes them human, you know? πŸ€— We should all try to be more like Edward - kind and gentle and stuff, but not necessarily exceptional or inspirational. Just, you know, regular people who happen to have scissors for hands πŸ’‡β€β™‚οΈ.
 
I mean, I think the film is actually kinda saying the opposite πŸ€”. Like, Edward's uniqueness is what makes him special, right? And isn't his ability to do weird stuff with those scissors pretty cool? 😎 But at the same time, I get what they're saying about how people treat him like a freak and not as a person... it's all super confusing πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. I mean, can we really say that acceptance doesn't come with some level of exploitation, but also maybe Edward kinda benefits from being different? πŸ€”πŸ‘€
 
I just watched this documentary about the impact of social media on mental health 🀯 and I'm still trying to process everything... Apparently, the constant stream of curated perfection can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem πŸ˜”. The article says that taking breaks from social media and engaging in offline activities can help reduce stress and anxiety 🌸. But what's your take on it? πŸ‘€
 
πŸ€” I feel like this movie is more about how societal norms can be super toxic when it comes to people with disabilities. Like, the Boggs family thinks Edward's scissorhands are cool at first, but then they start using him for their own gain without even caring about what he wants. It's like, we need to move away from treating disability as a superpower or something that can be exploited for our own benefit.

And can we talk about the power dynamics between abled and disabled people? Like, Joyce makes these creepy advances towards Edward and nobody bats an eye. Where is the consent in that? We need to do better than just accepting someone with a disability into our lives without actually understanding or respecting their boundaries.

I think what bothers me most is how "exceptional" gets treated as this super positive trait. It's like, being different isn't always a good thing. Sometimes it's just...different. And that's okay. We need to focus on creating a culture where everyone is accepted and respected for who they are, regardless of their abilities or disabilities.

It's like, what if Edward wasn't an outsider because he had scissorhands? What if he was just someone who happened to have different hands? We'd probably be more accepting of him, right? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ
 
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