The man who froze his wife and got a new girlfriend: a stranger, sadder tale than I expected | Imogen West-Knights

A Chinese Man's Cryonic Freeze and Its Complicated Love Life Raises Questions About Grief and Mourning

In China, a man named Gui Junmin made headlines when he had his wife, Zhan Wenlian, cryogenically frozen in 2017 after she died of lung cancer. The unprecedented procedure, paid for by a science research institute, preserved her body for 30 years. What has sparked controversy is that Gui began dating again in 2020, with some questioning whether this was fair to his late wife.

For those unfamiliar with cryonics, the process involves freezing the human body at extremely low temperatures in hopes of reviving it when technology advances enough to cure diseases and restore life. It's a complex and often debated topic, especially when it comes to personal relationships. Gui's story raises uncomfortable questions about grief, mourning, and the complexities of human emotions.

Gui initially told his wife that he didn't believe she was truly dead but had just gone somewhere to rest for a while before agreeing to cryonics. It appears that his motivations have changed over time, with some reports suggesting that his new partner, Wang Chunxia, is not his true love but rather someone who provided emotional support during his illness.

The issue is not whether Gui can move on and find happiness again; it's the fact that he found solace in another person while still grieving for his late wife. This raises concerns about the ethics of cryonics and the potential consequences for those left behind. Is it possible to truly mourn and grieve when a loved one may be revived in the future?

The world's major cryonics labs were founded by individuals who wanted to preserve their own loved ones, highlighting the emotional motivations behind this practice. However, as the technology is still largely unproven, it's essential to approach these claims with skepticism.

Gui's story serves as a reminder that death is inevitable and that no scientific advancement can change its outcome. The complex emotions surrounding grief and mourning will continue to be a part of human experience long after cryonics becomes a reality.
 
I gotta disagree, this whole cryonics thing is just messed up πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ! I mean, Gui's wife was gone for real, not just off on some extended vacation 🚫. She died from cancer and it's like he's trying to rewrite history. And now he's moving on with someone else? That's just hurtful πŸ˜”.

I get that people want to hold onto memories of their loved ones, but cryonics isn't the answer πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ. It's not about finding love again, it's about dealing with the fact that your partner is really gone πŸ’€. And what about Zhan Wenlian's family? They're still grieving too, and Gui's actions are basically saying they can just forget about their loss πŸ’”.

We need to be more considerate of those left behind when it comes to cryonics 🀝. It's not just about the person who's frozen, it's about everyone who loved them πŸ‘ͺ.
 
I mean, this guy Gui Junmin is like the ultimate Netflix show – he's got drama, love triangles, and a side of frozen wife πŸ˜‚πŸ‘». But seriously though, what's up with people wanting to preserve their loved ones in ice? It's like, okay, sure, science says you might one day revive them, but have they considered the poor guy who actually loves them and is still grieving? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈπŸ’”

And I'm not even gonna get started on the whole emotional support thing – Wang Chunxia sounds like a real-life Tinder match 😜. I guess what's crazy is that cryonics has become so accepted now, it's like we're all just waiting for the next big sci-fi movie where people come back to life and everyone's all "oh, my spouse died 20 years ago, but now they're back and we have to rekindle our romance!" πŸŽ₯πŸ‘«

Anyway, I think what Gui's story really highlights is that death is still a weird, messy thing, and even with science on the side, it can't completely change how we feel about losing someone. So yeah, let's just enjoy the drama while it lasts, folks! πŸ˜‚
 
man this cryonic freezing thing is so messed up 🀯, like if my wife passed away and i thought she was just resting somewhere i'd freak out not think it through. gui's new girlfriend sounds like the emotional crutch he needs instead of dealing with his actual grief πŸ’”, can't say for sure but it feels kinda weird to move on while still grieving #CryonicFreeze #GriefAndMourning #LoveInTheTimeOfDeath 😒
 
I'm still trying to wrap my head around this one 🀯... I mean, if someone wants to freeze their partner after they pass away, that's their choice, but is it really fair to start dating again right after? It feels like Gui's just using cryonics as an excuse to move on from his grief. Like, what about the emotional labor he needs to do to process his loss? And what about Zhan Wenlian herself - was she okay with this whole situation before she passed away?

I don't think it's necessarily about whether or not Gui can find happiness again, but more about being respectful to the person who has passed on. It's a gray area, I get that, but it feels like he's just using cryonics as a way to avoid dealing with his emotions πŸ˜”.
 
πŸˆπŸ’” this whole thing just feels so sad, you know? like gui is still grieving for zhan but then he moves on with someone else πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ and i'm wondering if he's really over her or not. it's not that i think it's wrong to move on, but the fact that he's found comfort in another person while his wife is still frozen away feels kinda wrong πŸ˜”. what does that say about our society? are we just trying to numb the pain of loss with distractions like love and relationships? 🀯
 
🀣 I mean, what's next? Cryonic freezing just for fun?! Gui's story is like something out of a sci-fi movie... but seriously, it raises some pretty deep questions about grief and moving on. Like, can we really be ready to find love again when someone we loved has been frozen in time? πŸ€” And don't even get me started on the "emotional support" aspect with Wang Chunxia - is that just a nice way of saying she's his rebound? 😏 I'm all for people finding happiness again, but let's not forget about the person who was left behind... πŸ’”
 
I'm just thinking, you know... this guy Gui Junmin is really bringing up some deep feelings. Like, I get it, he's grieving and all, but can't we just take a moment to process our emotions before moving on? It feels like a big 'ol mess when the person who's supposed to be comforting us (in this case, his new partner Wang Chunxia) is kinda just patching up his emotional hole. Meanwhile, Zhan Wenlian's still frozen away... it's like we're holding onto hope for her too, which I think is why people are all upset about him dating again. And honestly, can cryonics even guarantee that she'll be revived in better shape? What if she wakes up and things have moved on without her? It's just a lot to deal with...
 
I dont think its fair to say Gui moved on or found solace in Wang Chunxia because he was grieving for his wife πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. Cryopreserving your partner is an emotional burden, and it's not like you just get over someone who has died, no matter how much time passes. Grief is different from moving on - its a natural process, but one that can take years (or even decades) to fully deal with πŸ’”. And honestly, Gui was probably really scared of losing his wife, and cryonics was his way of holding onto hope... maybe he needed someone to talk to while he waited for the technology to become more reliable 😊. I dont think its fair to question whether he could find happiness again, when all he had was the possibility of being reunited with his wife in the future ❀️
 
omg i just saw this news about the guy who had his wife frozen and now he's dating again 🀯 like, what even is that? i mean, i get it, people grieve in different ways, but it feels kinda insensitive to me... especially when she was only gone for 30 years πŸ€”. i'm not saying he's a bad person or anything, but doesn't he think about his wife at all? like, emotionally frozen too? πŸ˜‚ anyway, this whole cryonics thing is wild... what if it actually works and people get revived in the future? would we just have to start over with our relationships or what? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
Ugh, what's next? 🀯 Gui Junmin's whole situation just reeks of selfishness πŸ˜’. I mean, come on, his wife is cryogenically frozen for 30 years and he goes ahead and dates someone else?! That's not grief support, that's just moving on with your life while others are still dealing with their emotions πŸ’”. And what really gets my goat is that people are actually questioning whether it's fair to his late wife 😀. Newsflash: it's not. He had a choice to make and he chose to move on, leaving her frozen in ice for who knows how long πŸ’€. Can't he just be honest with himself about his emotions instead of trying to justify it to others? πŸ™„
 
I'm not sure I agree that Gui should've moved on with his life so quickly πŸ€”... at the same time, I think it's kinda messed up that he's got a new partner already and they're providing emotional support instead of him grieving properly πŸ’”. What if Wang Chunxia really does help him move forward? Shouldn't we be focusing on Gui's happiness rather than judging him for finding love again? On the other hand, isn't it kinda selfish to want your dead wife back just because you can? I mean, isn't that what cryonics is supposed to be about - giving hope in a bleak world? But at the same time, shouldn't we be worried about people holding onto memories and relationships for too long? It's all so... complicated 🀯.
 
I'm still trying 2 process all this 🀯... Gui Junmin's story is like a big ol' puzzle with lots of complicated pieces πŸ’”. It's not about whether he can move on or find happiness again, it's about the fact that his heart is still hurting and finding solace in someone else while his wife is gone 😒. I think it's unfair 2 him 2 expect people 2 understand & be okay with this πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. Cryonics is a big deal, but we gotta consider the human emotions involved πŸ’•. What if she does come back? Would he still grieve her death or would he just be happy 2 have her back? πŸ€” It's like, is it possible 2 truly mourn when there's a chance of revival? I don't know, man... it's all so sad & confusing 😭.
 
πŸ˜” I feel so bad for Gui Junmin πŸ€•, his late wife Zhan Wenlian πŸ’€ is still frozen in time... but it's hard not to wonder if he's being true to himself or just trying to fill the void πŸ’”. The fact that he's moved on and dated again 😞 makes me think about how complex grief can be πŸ‘€. Can we really move on from someone without processing our emotions first? 🀝 I wish him happiness with Wang Chunxia πŸ‘«, but at the same time, my heart goes out to Zhan Wenlian πŸ’”. It's like, what happens when she's revived in the future? 😱 Will it be the same love or will it be different? πŸ’­ Cryonics is still such a mysterious topic πŸ€–...
 
I'm genuinely curious about Gui's situation, I feel like he needs time to process his feelings, 30 years might be too long for him to move on πŸ€”. It's not fair to Wang Chunxia that she gets pulled into this complicated web of emotions, especially when Gui is still grieving his late wife πŸ’”. I think it's great that cryonics has brought up these tough questions about grief and mourning, we need more conversations like this to prepare ourselves for the future πŸ‘€.
 
I mean, come on... Gui Junmin is like the ultimate Netflix rom-com hero - dies, gets frozen, and then finds love again! But for real though, it's kinda weird that he's moved on with his life while still grieving for Zhan Wenlian. I guess you could say he's trying to find a new 'cool' partner (get it? cryogenic cool?). Anyway, the question is, can we really mourn and grieve when there's a chance our loved ones might come back to us? πŸ€”πŸ‘»πŸ’€ It's like, we're already dealing with enough emotional baggage; do we need science to complicate things even more? πŸ™ƒ
 
I'm so over the emotional rollercoaster that comes with these crazy cryo stories 🀯. Can't people just give each other space to grieve properly? Like, Gui's still got his frozen wife out there, and he's already moving on? That's not closure, that's just rubbing salt in the wound πŸ’”. And don't even get me started on how messy this whole thing is – Wang Chunxia sounds like the human version of a Band-Aid πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. It's all so... complicated 😩. I mean, what's next? Reviving grandma for her high school reunion? 🀣 The ethics of cryonics might be murky, but one thing's for sure – it's gonna be a wild ride 🎒.
 
I'm still trying to wrap my head around Gui Junmin's situation... I mean, I get why people are upset about him moving on so soon, but at the same time, isn't he just trying to find peace and happiness? It's like, we all grieve in our own ways and times, right? πŸ€”

I'm not sure if it's fair to say that his new partner is just "emotional support" though... Wang Chunxia seems like a pretty amazing person who helped Gui through a tough time. Maybe she's not the one he'll end up loving forever, but does that mean her presence in his life isn't valid? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

The thing that really gets me is how much emphasis is put on "true love" and "not moving on" when someone's partner has passed away... It feels like we're all so caught up in the idea of romantic love that we forget about other forms of connection and care. Gui might find happiness with Wang Chunxia, but that doesn't mean his feelings for Zhan Wenlian have to disappear. 🌈
 
I just can't believe this guy Gui Junmin is doing the rounds again with someone new πŸ˜”. I mean, I get it, he's grieving and all, but still finding comfort in another person? It feels like he's putting his own healing on hold until his wife gets revived 🀯. What about her feelings though? Did she really want to be frozen for 30 years just so he could move on with someone else? πŸ˜• I think this raises some super important questions about grief, mourning, and the complexity of human emotions πŸ’”. Can we truly grieve and heal when there's a possibility that our loved one might come back in the future? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ It's like, can we ever really say goodbye to them? 🌫️
 
I mean I can kinda see why people would be all upset about Gui's situation... it's like he's trying to move on from his wife, but at the same time, he's still holding onto memories of her & thinking she might come back πŸ€”... and then there's this other girl who comes into the picture & provides emotional support... it's just so complicated 🀯. But honestly, I think we need to consider the possibility that people can find love again after losing someone they care about ❀️. Life is full of twists & turns, right?
 
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