The Spark That Changed Everything
It was April 2023 and I had just arrived in Melbourne, Australia for a book signing event. The trip was a chance encounter with Craig, an Australian photographer who lived in my hometown of Victoria, Canada. We had met online through a phone game about surviving a zombie apocalypse, bonding over our shared love of geeky things.
As we explored the city together, I couldn't shake off the feeling that this could be more than just a casual meetup. But with all the isolation and loneliness of the past two years still fresh in my mind, I was hesitant to take any chances.
We spent our days wandering through Melbourne's coffee shops, chocolate stores, and bookstores, laughing and joking like old friends. As we ended each day with train rides out to quirky shops selling replica swords and armor, I began to realize that this could be something special.
It wasn't until Craig put down his camera and asked for permission to kiss me that the moment truly crystallized into a romantic connection. The proposal was as unexpected as it was beautiful - just like our initial online friendship had been.
Looking back, I can see that it was our shared geekiness and sense of humor that brought us together in the first place. But it was also a chance to reconnect with myself after years of isolation. Craig's kind heart, genuine smile, and easy laugh won me over from the start.
We spent every spare moment together, building a relationship that bridged oceans and continents. Our love wasn't built on grand gestures or fairy tale romances - just on our shared laughter, adventures, and geeky enthusiasm for life.
The months ahead of us were challenging, with long-distance video chats and video dates punctuated by periods of physical separation. But through it all, Craig remained steadfast and loving, a constant source of support and encouragement in the face of uncertainty.
And so we got married in March 2025, surrounded by friends, family, and our own little patch of Aussie sunshine.
In this moment I realized that true love wasn't something you found - but rather created with someone special.
It was April 2023 and I had just arrived in Melbourne, Australia for a book signing event. The trip was a chance encounter with Craig, an Australian photographer who lived in my hometown of Victoria, Canada. We had met online through a phone game about surviving a zombie apocalypse, bonding over our shared love of geeky things.
As we explored the city together, I couldn't shake off the feeling that this could be more than just a casual meetup. But with all the isolation and loneliness of the past two years still fresh in my mind, I was hesitant to take any chances.
We spent our days wandering through Melbourne's coffee shops, chocolate stores, and bookstores, laughing and joking like old friends. As we ended each day with train rides out to quirky shops selling replica swords and armor, I began to realize that this could be something special.
It wasn't until Craig put down his camera and asked for permission to kiss me that the moment truly crystallized into a romantic connection. The proposal was as unexpected as it was beautiful - just like our initial online friendship had been.
Looking back, I can see that it was our shared geekiness and sense of humor that brought us together in the first place. But it was also a chance to reconnect with myself after years of isolation. Craig's kind heart, genuine smile, and easy laugh won me over from the start.
We spent every spare moment together, building a relationship that bridged oceans and continents. Our love wasn't built on grand gestures or fairy tale romances - just on our shared laughter, adventures, and geeky enthusiasm for life.
The months ahead of us were challenging, with long-distance video chats and video dates punctuated by periods of physical separation. But through it all, Craig remained steadfast and loving, a constant source of support and encouragement in the face of uncertainty.
And so we got married in March 2025, surrounded by friends, family, and our own little patch of Aussie sunshine.
In this moment I realized that true love wasn't something you found - but rather created with someone special.