Grief over pet death can be as strong as that for family member, survey shows

A Growing Body of Evidence Suggests Pet Loss Can Trigger Chronic Grief, Redefining What It Means to Be Bereaved.

Researchers have long known that humans form strong bonds with their pets. However, it's now becoming increasingly clear that these relationships can be just as emotionally devastating as those with family members. A recent study published in the PLOS One journal reveals that people experiencing the loss of a pet may be suffering from prolonged grief disorder (PGD), a mental health condition characterized by intense longing and despair.

According to the survey, conducted among 975 adults in the UK, nearly 8% of those who had lost pets met the diagnostic criteria for PGD. This rate is strikingly similar to that found after the death of close friends or family members, including grandparents (8.3%), siblings (8.9%), and partners (9.1%). The study suggests that up to one in 12 cases of PGD in the UK may be attributed to pet loss.

Researchers have long cautioned against shame or stigma associated with expressing grief over a deceased pet. However, the new findings suggest that these feelings are not only unwarranted but also dismissive of the profound emotional impact pets can have on their owners.

According to Dr. Philip Hyland, lead researcher and professor of psychology at Maynooth University in Ireland, "The symptoms of grief for a pet match identically with those for a human. There is no difference in how people experience these losses." He argues that current diagnostic guidelines are outdated and fail to recognize the legitimacy of pet-related bereavement.

Hyland's team estimates that nearly one-fifth of people who have experienced both pet and human loss reported that their grief over the pet was more intense, a finding that challenges previous assumptions about the relative significance of these losses. The research highlights the need for expanded diagnostic guidelines to include pets as legitimate risk factors for PGD.

The implications of this study are far-reaching. By recognizing the complexity and depth of human-animal relationships, we may be forced to reevaluate our understanding of grief and bereavement. As Hyland so eloquently puts it, "This would be an extraordinarily difficult position to defend... It's not just scientifically misguided but also callous."
 
man I'm feeling this study is like totally valid 🀯 my grandma had a cat that passed away like 2 years ago and I still get these weird feelings of sadness whenever I see a stray cat on the street... it's crazy how much we can form with animals, they're not just pets to us, they're family members too πŸˆπŸ’•
 
Pets are more than just pets, they're family πŸΎπŸ’•. Losing them is devastating & shouldn't be made light of πŸ’”. Time to give pet loss the grief it deserves πŸ‘.
 
I'm low-key surprised by this study πŸ€”. I mean, who doesn't know that losing a pet is super hard? 😩 My own fur baby passed away a few years ago and man, it was like losing a member of my family πŸ’”. It's crazy to think that the research is saying we're just as likely to develop prolonged grief disorder from losing our pets as we are from losing our loved ones 🀯. I'm all for expanding diagnostic guidelines to include pets as risk factors for PGD, it makes total sense πŸ™Œ. We need to recognize that our relationships with animals are real and valid emotional connections πŸ’•.
 
πŸΎπŸ’” I totally get why people would feel like their feelings are being dismissed when they talk about losing a pet. My own grandma used to have this adorable little cat named Whiskers, and even though it was just a pet to everyone else, she was literally devastated when Whiskers passed away. She'd cry all the time, and it took her months to come around. I remember how sad it made me feel too - it wasn't like we'd lost a family member or anything, but still... it felt like we were losing someone really special. Now that research is showing this, it makes total sense! 🀯
 
I think it's wild that pet loss can actually trigger chronic grief 🐾😒. I mean, we all know how attached we get to our pets, and when they pass away, it's like losing a member of the family too. The fact that 8% of people in the UK meet the diagnostic criteria for prolonged grief disorder after losing their pet is pretty shocking... I'd say we should be acknowledging that pets play such a huge role in our lives and our emotions πŸ€—. It just feels so unfair to dismiss these feelings as "not a big deal" when, for some people, it's actually really tough πŸ˜”. Maybe it's time to update those diagnostic guidelines to include pets as legitimate risk factors for PGD πŸ’‘.
 
I'm low-key shocked by this new study 😲. I mean, we've all been there - losing a beloved pet and feeling like a part of us is missing πŸΎπŸ’”. But the fact that nearly 8% of people in the UK are meeting the criteria for prolonged grief disorder after losing their pets? That's just heartbreaking πŸ€•. And it makes total sense to me, considering how attached we get with our furry friends πŸ’—. I think this study is a game-changer and we need to start recognizing that pet loss can be just as devastating as human loss πŸ“ˆ. Maybe then we'll stop being so dismissive of people's feelings and actually listen to what they're going through πŸ’¬.
 
Pain is the only true reality, πŸ’”. Losing a pet can indeed feel like losing a part of ourselves, and it's essential we acknowledge that grief is not limited by species. The stigma around expressing emotions over a deceased pet needs to disappear, as it's crucial for us to confront our feelings head-on.
 
Wow 😊 Animals are more than just pets, they're family members! I think this study is interesting because it shows how much of an impact our pets have on us. I've been there myself, losing my cat a few years ago and it was like losing a part of me. The fact that many people experience prolonged grief disorder after losing their pets is mind-blowing. 🀯
 
πŸ˜” I can only imagine how hard it must be to lose a pet πŸΎπŸ’”. The emotional pain is real and valid πŸ€—. I've seen so many people struggling with the loss of their furry friends, and it's heartbreaking 😭. It's amazing that researchers are finally giving credence to the depth of our feelings πŸ’‘. The fact that up to one in 12 cases of PGD might be attributed to pet loss is staggering 🀯. Let's not shame people for grieving over their pets; they're just as deserving of compassion and support ❀️. It's time we acknowledge the complexity of human-animal relationships and give them the recognition they deserve πŸ’•.
 
πŸ€• I'm not surprised that people are getting all teary-eyed over their pets πŸΎπŸ’”. I mean, it's not like they're actually thinking about the pet's sacrifice for them or anything. "Oh woe is me, my furry little friend died!" πŸ™„ Meanwhile, there are actual humans out there suffering and dying left and right, but no one bats an eye because we're just too caught up in our own emotions πŸ’”. The fact that 8% of people meet the diagnostic criteria for prolonged grief disorder after losing a pet is actually pretty telling... it's not like they were prepared to deal with the reality of life without their precious pet πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ.
 
πŸΎπŸ’” I think this is super interesting research! I mean, we all know pets are like family members, right? πŸ€— But the fact that nearly 8% of people who lost their pets met the criteria for prolonged grief disorder is crazy. It's not just about feeling sad or missing your pet; it's actually a legitimate mental health condition that can last for months or even years.

I'm also loving how Dr. Hyland is saying that our current diagnostic guidelines are outdated and need to catch up with modern human-animal relationships. Like, we've got therapy for everything from anxiety to ADHD, but grief? That's still kinda stigmatized πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. This research is making me think about how much I value my own pet, and maybe even rethink what it means to be "bereaved" πŸΆπŸ’•
 
πŸΎπŸ’” I'm so done with people thinking pet loss is any less valid than human loss. Newsflash: pets are living beings we form deep connections with and their passing can be devastating. This study isn't about diminishing the pain of others, it's about acknowledging that grief comes in many forms 🀝
 
I'm not sure I buy into this idea that losing a pet is equivalent to losing a human family member. Like, have we been underestimating the impact of our pets on our mental health for too long? πŸ€” But at the same time, isn't it possible that our attachment to pets can be just as intense and all-consuming as our attachment to humans? I need some more research on this before I start calling out pet loss as a legitimate trigger for grief disorder. Sources, pls! πŸ“Š
 
πŸΎπŸ’” I mean, what's next? Are we gonna say that the loss of a favorite snack or TV show is also a valid reason for PTSD? Like, no kidding, guys. We already knew that humans form strong bonds with their pets, it doesn't take a study to figure that out. But seriously, 8% of people in the UK experiencing prolonged grief disorder after losing their pets? That's not surprising at all. I've seen some intense reactions from people when they lose their fur babies, and it's not just because they're "cute" πŸ˜‚. This study is a good reminder that we need to take our human-animal relationships more seriously and recognize the emotional impact they have on us. Maybe then we can start having more nuanced conversations about grief and bereavement πŸ€”.
 
I'm low-key shocked by this new study 🀯. I mean, we've all lost a pet at some point and thought it was normal grief πŸ’”, but apparently that's not the case. It's wild how similar the symptoms of losing a pet are to losing a human relative... 8% is still crazy though 😲. I think this changes everything we thought we knew about grief & bereavement. Can you imagine having a mental health diagnosis for "being too sad after your cat dies"? πŸˆπŸ˜‚ It's not funny, but it does highlight how much our emotions can be impacted by the loss of a pet πŸ’•. Anyway, if more research like this comes out, we might finally start taking human-pet grief seriously 😊.
 
πŸ€” I think its kinda sad that people still get judged for crying about their pets 🐾😭 but yeah thats probably because society still doesnt fully understand the bond between humans and animals 🀝 Its like they say... we form strong connections with our furry friends just as much as our family members πŸ‘«πŸ’• So yeah, who's to say what constitutes grief? Shouldn't we be giving people space to grieve in whatever way feels right for them? πŸ’”

[link] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9263316/

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πŸΎπŸ’” I totally get why people are heartbroken when they lose their furry friends. For me, my cat is like a member of the family 🐱❀️ and it's hard to imagine life without her. I think it's amazing that scientists are finally recognizing how much grief can hit you after losing a pet. It makes sense to me - we form strong bonds with them just like we do with our loved ones πŸ’•. I'm so glad researchers are pushing for more understanding of this stuff, maybe we can get better support systems in place for people who are struggling to cope... πŸ€—
 
I think this is really interesting πŸ€”... Losing a pet can be super sad, I mean who doesn't love their furry friends? 😭 But apparently, the loss of a pet can be just as bad as losing a family member or friend. It's crazy that it's only now being recognized as a valid way to experience grief.

I'm not surprised though, I've seen so many people get really down when they lose their pets. And it's not just about the emotional attachment, it's also about the sense of responsibility and companionship we have with them.

The fact that nearly 8% of those who lost a pet met the diagnostic criteria for PGD is pretty eye-opening. It's like, our feelings are valid and should be acknowledged πŸ™. We shouldn't feel guilty or ashamed to express our grief over a deceased pet.
 
πŸΎπŸ’” I always knew this was a thing, but I never thought it'd be officially acknowledged. Like, I've been there where I'm literally crying in front of my pet's favorite toy or something... 🀣 and people are all like "oh, it's just a pet, get over it." But now we know that's not true πŸ˜”. I mean, the stats are crazy - 1 in 12 cases of PGD? That's a lot of cat people (or dog people, or whatever) who need some support πŸˆπŸ’•. And I love how Dr. Hyland is saying that it's not about shame, but about recognizing that our pets can be just as loved and lost as family members πŸ‘ͺ. Maybe we should start giving pet owners a break when they're feeling down? πŸ€—
 
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